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Monthly Archives: June 2006
when me and fil chat on the fone at work he has to pretend he is talking to a client and he says things like WELL I WILL GET BACK TO YOU ON THOSE RETURNS when i ask if he wants to go to this art show party and then he’s all bla bla portfolio interface and i’m like frap frap fart fffft pffft blerp bloop bleep VAGINA VAGINA MY VAAAAGIIIINA and he has to keep speaking like he is talking to a normal person and not a five year old with tourettes bye.
also this morning he texted for me to wake up i had enough sleep and i called him and said i had been up and painting since 9 and he said “oh” very quietly and i said are you a detective did you get all the facts and he said yes, case closed.
BEAT KIDS
this kid makes me regret having that abortion seeing as my son coulda been THIS AWESOME!
i totally just took a crap ps.
i am fucking awful at digital dance revolution i don’t know why. peggy is really good. i got 100% singing it’s my life (stefani styles) for karaoke hero AND THAT NEVER HAPPENS TO ANYONE WHO IS NOT ME SORRY. i am hungover as hell and working on popsicle art i am going to have a show. yes.
ASK RAYMI
Hi Raymi,
I just discovered your web site today. I was wondering what you thought about my little problem.
I am almost 22 and my boyfriend is 23. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 months. He has a lot of great qualities: he’s handsome, generally he has a positive attitude, he makes me laugh, he wants to spend time with me, we have loads of fun when we go out, his family and friends all adore me. In fact I have never been with a guy who’s family and friends have accepted me the way these people do.
It has been along time since I have felt this much for another person. He has told me that I broke down all the walls he had built up around his heart and that he loves me and cares about me very much. He has said that he wants to be with me for the rest of our lives so we can make each other happy and have fun and stay young. He said I am the only girl he has ever been with that he can see himself growing old with.
But I have a few problems with him though…..
I know that he is insecure with certain aspects of himself (who doesn’t right?) So to compensate for this he is over confident and ends up driving
me away…. it can be a big turn off.
Secondly, he has this talent for saying the worst possible thing and the worst possible time. He is Sarcastic and rude. For example, Last night we went out to dinner with my 17 year old cousin (we’re pretty close). This was the first time that he was to meet her. We were eating appetizers and my cousin started talking about her sex life. To make a long story short, my boyfriend says, point blank, that he is “way better in bed” than I am.
It just crushed me. He has a sarcastic sense of humor, I know this, but sometimes he takes it so far that it would hurt less if he just punched me in the face. Most times when we go out he will say at least one thing that really cuts me down. The worst part is he does it in front of his friends, and now my family. After we took her home he wanted to go back to his house, but I refused. I told him how he makes me feel when he says things that cut me down. He told me that he was sorry and that he was new at “all of this” (relationships) and that he loves me and cares about me.
But this isn’t the first time that we have fought about this. I know i deserve to be treated better. I deserve a straight answer to my questions: Why do you think it’s funny to put me down? Why don’t you stand up for me? why do you let your friends talk down to me? If I hear anyone saying something to cut him down, I stand up for him. But he won’t stand up for me. It’s not that I don’t mind standing up for myself, i always have, but every other boyfriend I have had would punch out another guy who was putting me down. What the heck do I do?
Is this relationship worth saving? Should I just cut my losses now? Please help RAYMI!!!! Thanks for reading my email. I hope to get an answer soon!
Keep up the great work and best wishes for the future!
~ Sleepless in Canada
Hi Sleepless, wow that was really long, you could’ve just got to the point and said my boyfriend is an insecure fucking asshole who uses me as his whipping boy to look better in front of his piece of shit friends.
this relationship is NOT worth saving, your boyfriend thinks his behavior is acceptible. he refuses to stop and it’s so bad even his friends are doing it.
if you really want to save it the only way would be to mock him publicly and do everything he does to you but worse. however, that doesn’t sound like a healthy and happy relationship to me or anyone.
he seems to be one of those i want you to treat me like shit type guys and he’s pushing and pushing you to return the treatment, it’s the only way he can be satiated that yes, he is worthless and lacks confidence, whatever, he’s a fucker. move on. he is emotionally unstable and 23 for crying out loud! date someone older who treats you better.
ps. he said the i see us growing old together line which is only a ploy to get you to stick around longer and all bitches fall for it.
good luck
cid is CRAZY!
raymi!
i like very much your blog and the pictures of your hot body! any chance to get
more from them?
lg
lacky
TWO YEARS AGO TODAY
and this blog is not my only legacy. people seem to think because this person has a journal that is viewable online that their whole damn life is in it and so they think that is all you are like i’m sorry i leave out the shit about me not being a useless moron you’re obviously smart enough to conclude that on yer lonesome.
so i have this interview thing at 1 o’clock and i just finished hanging out with the cat in the backyard smoked a joint and put polysporin on the burn between my tits from a cig last nite. fuck! that fucking show buzz is awesome sucks to you americans that don’t get to see it. darryn and mo .com or some shit. im going to email the webmasterbater again.
i don’t even have a resume for this thing thang today pshhhh. i don’t know what i’m going to say or what i am going to wear
and i need to shower.
i threw a football a lot yesterday and the day before but then i was not allowed to kuz i kicked it way up in the air and it almost bonked into the cars in the driveway and then i threw a tennis ball at kat’s head by mistake. too bad it didn’t hit jay.
and finally hockey is over. like it was getting a bit ridiculous there, come on. at least it’s not baseball.
sorry never-ending innings of lame.
speaking of baseball and lame i saw the asshole the other day in front of that hipster cowgirl so tres modern bullshit of a place on queen and he’s like yerr i KNEW i would bump into you. i thought the same thing.
me and the asshole use to hang out when we were cool but now he works for lions gate films and hangs out with adult people well really i have no fucking clue what he is doing because his blog is the epitome of no new gossip. so whatever fuckwipe, email me already. my fone is shut off.
even tho we hate baseball i wanna go again and fall down all of the stairs after 11 dollar plastic pails of beer.
i’ll start the wave if you finish it.
