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embrace the crazy

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Sometimes I get hyper-reactive to the C-word and to the B-word. You can call me the other C-word and it’s okay but not this one. only i get to say I am crazy, you don’t get to.

I have decided to lean into the crazy. They say if crazy people don’t know they’re crazy, then they’re crazy and if people say they’re not crazy, they are definitely crazy but when people say they are crazy, it means that they aren’t. I find that those who are the most opposed to mental health are the ones who got the most issues that need addressing (yesterday). I also love when people say their problems out loud and also the solution for it. I interrupt and say, SO DO THAT or TELL THEM EXACTLY WHAT U JUST TOLD ME PROBLEM SOLVED but they don’t do it. People prefer the mess and the chip on their shoulders.

How is it that a humble egotistical fuck like myself can be happily collecting diagnosis’ then? I be out here catching traits, ticks, ’tisms, habits, routines all kinds of things with a big butterfly net but nahhhhhhhh YOU ALL somehow get missed with that bullshit like how the ones who trigger me say I am reacting yet it’s TO THEM AND WHAT THEY ARE CONSTANTLY FUCKING DOING chicken and the egg me once more and get a little FAFO sprinkling too bitch. Promise.

Can you tell I got my period? Lol.

Told a gf I was going to lean into sexy Minx then immediately text her a bevy of not sexy takes, rants, incidents, foul comment screenshots, just toxic drama galore. I think I meant to say, I will start TOMORROW lol. Which would be today.

This is blowing up on instagram. Only in this instance do I wish I was a man to be taken seriously and believed. I am just not a liar at all so this busts my chops hard, if you know me irl u know I have zero patience and tolerance for people who make me repeat myself.

I will say the thing ONCE and I say it kindly like a mouse, and then I get underestimated on whatever i said and not taken seriously. I am so lethally high-strung AUDHD that even saying the thing once pains me and I am irritated that I needed to speak AT ALL.

…and so, to take me to task and question me on anything resulting in me repeating the matter with even more details, effort, gusto, and thought, knowing you are still not on board, I AM LIVID at this point.

I just don’t lie and manosphere fucks en masse raining down on me shit like “sure bud” and “didn’t happen” over and over again made me a little more mad lol @ “a little more” and yeah, if you know me and love me then you will fight with me. Apparently a lot of women are making these videos right now so lets blame them for the rampant conspiracies flooding the feeds and not the cause of those videos.

IF THESE THINGS DIDN’T HAPPEN THEN THESE VIDEOS WOULDN’T EXIST. Has ChatGPT taken people’s ability to recognize reality any fucking more or are they that reactive to the story about guys leering at me and saying it out loud, did they get affected and revolted too? So they’re quick to protect their fellow (fictional by their records) men out from the boogey women claiming all these VERY FUCKING TOTALLY HAPPENED TO US THINGS.

No wait, they all gotta be lying that’s it they co-ordinated these mass-lies because women have a secret red bat phone all connected to one another ARE YOU FUCKING CRAZY TO THINK THAT WE ACTUALLY SPRANG INTO ACTION TO MAKE S/A VIDEOS ABOUT OUR TRAUMAS AND ABUSERS???

These men think they’re the dominant gender (they aren’t) and that the piggish shit that they all know they all do, isn’t really happening and the gross incel manosphere crap u all engage in that we see and u make sure of it…. IS THINGS THAT DIDN’T HAPPEN FOR 1000 Alex… so what is it? these things we see u do and brag about on the dark web too like really bad things, do not happen??? you are frying my logical brain. Such a waste of my time. Smart men know women are the smarter gender. Dumb men claim to be smart. Smart men say nothing.

and I just posted this on FB

Most viral vid of me on insta thus far outside of the 200 days sobriety selfie from 100 days ago I posted controversy kids… If you have thick skin, getting people mad at you is the way. I’ve had viral moments over the past 26 years and those moments bring draggings so hard you might lose ten pounds in a week. Some platforms are more vicious than others. And certain takes you have bring with those stans coming for you. Example: TwiHards – the Twilight Fandom taught yours truly a lesson when I posted Keira Morgan’s picture of #RobertPattinson on my raymitheminx.com blog in the early 2000s in Vancouver at a JUNO party he came to of ours… Gibson’s, as I was one of the groupie #influencer motley crew I was there too. lots of Canuck celebs were and they were filming Twilight on Tofino island at the time.

SO, Keira sells the pic to pop sugar (a lesser-tier Perez hilton site) and she gets a grand from it. He refused to take pics with us so she stealthily got a pic from across the room I was too scared to do it anyway, all I did was share the details on my blog and omit the part where he reeked like hot garbage cigarettes sweat like they obviously filmed all day and then he headed out in a toque to be more sweaty. you know that hot stank, he is also fucking hot as hell too so it didn’t matter but i was face to face with him SUPER CLOSE had to lean into his ear the music was blaring.. I have pics of this entire trip and evening. So ya, Twihards DID NOT RESPOND FAVOURABLY AT ALL TO THIS BLOG POST. I didn’t even think or know about them.

They went thru my blog and tore me to shreds so when I say to modern day trolls that they can’t hurt me (it still hurts) I try to make it known I have been thru the ringer before, the factory it was manufactured in plus the guy’s torture chamber prototype who invented it.
I don’t make videos about fictional things unless it’s about one of my inchy the caterpillar filler stories because I am baked and think I am hilarious or something. If I was a liar my blog would be, guess what, FILLED WITH LIES.

Mike “The Situation”Sorrentino cannot tell a lie either he is a big blabbermouth and I am too I just cant and don’t lie because I think every true detail is so interesting because I am delulu and happy I don’t even care if others think what I am saying matters I am talking til I get laughs.

in conclusion, what a nice long blog post u were blessed with today. Now say thank you before i make you pay to read this too.

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ngl im 43 and that’s me no filter and i can show it without my shades on too. i got moonbeam eyebags but they’re smooth and look ok, if that makes sense? sobriety really is age-defying…

enough monkeying around time to upload a video i took yesterday!

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raymitheminx.substack.com (please subscribe!) was the best decision I made this summer. One day I was sitting in front of my wordpress template and like all the hours of effort that was about to go into my blog post here on rtm was fine but it’s like spinning my wheels and expecting greatness and then several MORE hours of bugging my network to go read it and then 2 friends commenting way to go Raymi yahhhh something needs to change.

I needed to spread the news more. So, I did a little focus, finally sucked it up to finish setup and my only wish was I wish I started sooner. Not apologizing for what I am doing here, my age is irrelevant and I am more than my incredible tits. We’re in the funhouse and find out era of all the crap I ever did before in life and lived to tell the tales. Rob, why would I write about boring shit that has nothing to do with me when EVERYTHING to do with me is comedy entertainment “messy” gold! I got one lil Raymi commenting on my stories THIS IS SO ENTERTAINING and now they’re mailing me care packages. I am their selected star that they have access to. Remember YOU hired me for a blog talk when I was in my twenties?

I love the inevitable crash out and backlash. You are cute.

Sorry but suffice it to say Raymi the minx is like cockroaches, after the blast hits, we still here.

You can tell one is smaller eh? embarrassing! Not as embarrasing as in gr 4 when only one popped out first for like months and just the little nipple. elem school kids are brutal man I feel like making a group chat of a select group of peeps from elem school and bring up the past! They would just love it eh!? LOL. What an effective use of my time. I actually pursue all dumb things like this because my brain thinks YAY BLOG CONTENT it all evens out. Turns out that chronic need to document and hoard and plan for another post will make you super anxious. Healthy!

Feel free to expand upon what I think I mean here. Between Perez and Ariana these days, shit’s fucked.

Oh there’s a lil nip slip I didn’t know was there til one of my simps said so. The rest of the uncensored ones can be found shortly on RAYMITHEMINX.SUBSTACK.COM kk just plug in your email address and also make an account because this what it looks like inside my miiiiind.

adding this because I just posted it on FB and well why not share it here too. I am an angry woman at her wit’s end and big mouth on it lately bcos ppl been getting too comfortable not acting right…

seriously. seeing people be abusive and toxic to you on-repeat when you tell them to stop and they keep doing it anyway and then you blow a gasket because you see what they are doing and anticipate it, then they gaslight that they’re “doing nothing” to you. ALL that results in for me is an even bigger explosion down the road. The more you invalidate me and push me, make me feel powerless in lieu of peace and harmony which is actually fully attainable, YOU are the problem. You are the common denominator. Without fail. I am here only for good times. I am not suffering from your moods too. I take care of my own. You don’t even take care of your own emotional bullshit. And I am sick of repeating myself. How is it that I am the one who has a counselor and is sober and medicated yet no one else who is wilding out on me is taking care of their own mental health? Just focused on me and mine. I am not your punching bag so say less to me.

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we’re handing out examples here so if you wanna be made one of too just LMK.

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age 19 and age 43.

I am not sorry to be proud of myself and say that I am proud because I AM PROUD.

Blake Lively in a Simple favor tells Anna Kendrick to stop apologizing and saying sorry it’s a terrible habit women have. men never fucking apologize so stop it. DONE.

speaking of men… today I have decided to shame some here and not redact their names because I have already uploaded the images to flickr and their comments are public so if they wanna trash on women tied to their personal profiles alrighty then. You a big man eh, well let’s see just how big you are going thru Raymi the Minx’s ringer of learning the meaning of respect (shout-out uncle John).

context:

Here we see George Costanza aka Jason Alexander with an actress who is 17 years old at the time this scene was filmed. Her name is Courtney A Stodden. Here is what she said about filming a provocative scene as a minor with him and if any chuds say “allegedly” to any of her fucking statement, just know that I am picturing rearranging your face and posting a picture of the After results on my wall.

Here is the link to the facebook thread on this post BTW I am about to link it there oh man adrenaline surge I gott pee all of a sudden. blogging makes me anxious ughhh.

and now we hit the comments and leave our own experience as a comment because that is how social media works, I was in a movie and Actra sent me a woman to babysit so this crap wouldn’t happen. I had a robe and my own dressing room.

I can’t even write a hot take about my hot take my blood is boiling right now. Both of these guys were fb contacts of mine as well. I am way too lenient on who I add but it’s okay bc every election or anything, these ppl reveal themselves to me and get blocked or block me after they pitch a mega-tantrum.

I went thru this guy’s fb for ugly pictures to shame but gave up. when I publish this I will link my post to both those guys and in the fb thread too. When men attack women for wanting breast implants so we can be attractive to those men and feel like a woman in general, and these same men look at porn and thirst over hot chicks, but they chastise them for it. What are you saying to young women about this? SHE IS WARNING THEM YOU FUCKING IDIOT. And she was a young woman! and her tits were already big what is even your fucking point??

I love the endless gaslighting men instantly jump to in the comments. Energy vampires. Well guess what today is your lucky day! Bet you’re not gonna forget this fly-by disrespectful woman-bashing comment are ya now!?

facts. men understand consent in a gay bar but now when a vulnerable drunk insecure woman if in their sights, things get all murky there for whether or not it is good or bad to proceed in molesting that injured bird. This makes me want to go just sit in a bar for hours waiting and watching for my moment to spring into vigilante justice because this shit keeps happening and keeps happening and keeps happening, don’t it.

and if ya got any problems with anything else yall are invited to eat my ass after I shit.

-Sol, Love Island USA 2026

Level up time, ready shreddy?

you will like this one

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Hello hello, happy Monday. Hot ‘nough for ya? I apologize in advance for every thing that I am going to say based on sleep deprivation. It was torture trying to get proper sleep last night, so humid. We are still w/o A/C by choice but as each passing heatwaved day goes by it seems to be like, not, a good? choice.

We have been rocking a few fans and it was working great blowing all the hot air all around haha no but we closed the window last night and the bedroom turned into a sauna so I was up early on the couch where turns out I am too tall for so can’t really sleep properly there.

However, we are blessed there are far more suffering out there this is entitlement-complaining, gross, just sharing why I feel behind today.

One particular by-product bonus of weekday life is, in the wee morning hours on Paramount there is a Bar Rescue marathon and I am wholly-inspired by John Taffer’s stripping down, peg after peg, of business owner’s royal establishment fuck-ups en masse. He watches them on secret-camera from the oarking lot in a van then he goes THAT’S ITTT when he’s had enough and storms inna the place guns-a-blazing. It’s the best tv best bestie best and it’s a vehicle insight into America, State after another like everything you could imagine about the place plays out through seedy custies, beer-guzzling shot-takin’ bartenders (look I am a feminist so don’t even try me about this) okay I am sure they are fine people they just ratchet as hell and are drunken-stupor unprofessional trainwrecks wasting their boss’ money away and then you come to find out that these bar owner idiots are like $300,000 to over a million dollars in debt meanwhile their employee wastecases are living the life of Riley at their IN DEBT expense, right before their casting a blind-eye to it all noses. You get to see it all including sloppy bitches asses getting handed to them courtesy of John Taffer bless his heart. My friends and I discuss this show and scream when we watch it, I actually howl and laughter-scream. The other side of the coin is that John Taffer is a compassionate man too and the show has that feel-goodism aspect to it and you will cry because these people become so grateful and then “they learn” and hug and yadda-yadda.

Anyway, I find it comforting to see the trainwreck part of it as it’s just so extreme. It’s sad and grotesque seeing people in financial ruin played out on tv. I think we all find it all to be comforting (while disgusting) like how many things we get to bear witness to online every day the 24/7 news hour cycle rotation truly never stops. There is one atrocity after another, another Karen story after another like can you women just stop? Why so unhinged right now?

These types have always existed but thanks to the beautiful digital era that we live in THEY SEEM TO BE EVERYWHERE NOW. So I am thinking, why are they like this? Not all women implode like this surely, but this about to erupt at any moment breed is so truly heinous right now, and rampant. Is it the heat?? Why do none of them learn to just mind their own fucking business and leave innocent POC alone? I, like John Taffer, am a hot head and if ever saw a Karen going-off oh you balieeeeeeeeve me I ain’t havin’ none of that.

I cannot stand bullies. I always defended kids in school when I saw the cool kid getting too confident and picking on the little guys you see, I got a big mouth and I know how to wield it. I think everyone should be like that you always need to be ready and willing to get in someone’s corner if they’re at a disadvantage, when people say flex your privilege no fuck that it’s called being compassionate. Being human. But yes that is a weapon too.

And everybody is pissed off right now. We have all “had enough” of the police, Trump, being lied to and fucked over, Covid, pandemic blues, fear of the future, the state of the economy and its future-effects I am not saying enjoy the ride but if you’re going through Hell just keep going a la Winston Churchill.

Know your blessings and stop being a Karen. Get it together.

Well, moving on now and I regret saying none of that.

The sunset blaring through this part in the clouds was epic. Saw a gen z’er taking a pic and it made me happy bout that.

twas a hot day we went to see friends in st catharines I wanted to flex some fashion instead of my regular uniform although everything I wear makes me hot so I prefer a string bikini tiny tank look I think I was meant to be a nudist I don’t get how people can wear clothes and not want to die every second for me it is bothersome and I don’t mean sexy kind of nude just like oh my god I can’t stand this the clothes have got to go kind. Then you just sit around sweating like hippie commune styles, well we may as well tend the garden hey?

Oh Georgie <3.

I can’t with this one. Too adorable.

Haven’t done a patio in however long it’s a marvel and a money saver but this was a nice treat.

So delicious. Inhaled. That’s a banh mi pork sandwich, excellent. Will order 3 to share next time. The pad thai was great too.

Bye Georgie, smooshy lil muppet I miss you already. We had a great time oh and turns out you are not impervious to sangria hangovers, all that sugar, ouch. Alas was a fine time so no harm no foul.

But alas again have run out of steam and have other things to do this was great will be back again tomorrow with more, ok doke bye for now xo raymi.