one of your stalkers

hey raymi,

i’m another one of them peoples that can’t stop reading your blog. it’s really funny and dynamic, and i know there’ll be something new on there every time i check. which is awesome, because there’s nothing worse than checking someone’s blog like 10 times in a week and they STILL haven’t updated. gawd. but yeah, i also like that you change the title and background and i like the way your links are organized on the side and you have some sexy pictures and stuff. the sexy pictures kind of make it feel like something really intimate and risque in a way.

i have a blog too but probably like 3 people read it. i’m undecided about whether i should make it more anonymous and more personal, or less anonymous and less personal and then put links to it on my facebook and such. i think i would like a few more people to read it. i think i need to update the style too, cuz it’s way too nerdy looking. the nerdy thing was totally a joke originally but it’s too subtle and most people don’t catch on because a lot of my posts are kind of serious. i find it really tough trying to decide on a style because my posts range a lot. maybe my personality ranges a lot. sometimes i like to write these kind of literary, maybe even poetic posts. but a lot of my older posts involve me going ‘yeah i am drunk and i just got back from shagging some drummer from a band and i am still horny and blah blah blah’. so yeah, i tend to have a problem deciding who my audience is and how to talk to them. did you ever find that while developing your style or did you just have one style and stick with it from the beginning? how about your audience, did you try to develop a style to suit them or did you just do your own thing and wait for them to come to you?

also, when you post, do you write your posts first and edit them and then post them, or do you just write them straight in? do you ever censor yourself? because you give the impression of not censoring yourself, but who knows, maybe you have much more risque things to say but you just don’t say them. like, you don’t really blog about sex much. this is my problem, i love talking and blogging about sex, but it’s pretty personal so i don’t really want to share it with everyone, which is why i have like three of my friends that read it…

anyway, this was kind of a pointlessly long email, but just wanted to throw those few questions your way in case you have time to read this and respond.

much love

kat

p.s. i’m not really a stalker, unless you consider that i read your blog but never say anything. well except maybe one or two comments in the past.

and also, here is my blog link in case you are interested in looking at it: baconandbananas

hey kat thanks for writing
thanks for the compliments
no i dont censor myself i just write how i feel and i don’t think about it too much i just do it and there it is, over-thinking things can be a big detriment
i dont blog about sex anymore really cos i dunno
i dont want it to be a sex blog
im not purposely not talking about it or anything
and as for style or schtick or whatever ive never thought ok this is how my style is going to be
im not a poseur or a fake, how i write is who i am
im going to post yer email and then maybe answer it further in comments later