ASK RAYMI
Hey Raymi,
I’m 15 years old going 16 soon and I have utterly fallen for one of my classmates. She’s not that pretty but its her attitude and how nice she is that make me like her. But there’s a few problems.
A few months ago, December to be precise, she hit on me. I thought that she really meant it and said yes but turns out it was only a dare from her twin sister. So we didn’t get together but we got closer.
But at the time I was saying yes because I felt sorry for her. After that I started to notice her and eventually fall for her. I’m not the class genius, nor the top jock. I’m the sub-geek that’s almost cool but not quite and is always nice to everyone. My friends say I look relatively good although I myself don’t think so.
I’m not confident or proud of myself. I’m usually quiet. When I try to talk to her I don’t know what to say. Its easy to chat on MSN but I cant talk to her directly. And because we were “together” for a brief period I know that she’s not yet ready for commitment. I don’t know what to do!! I don’t wanna wait too long to tell how I feel.
So to summarize it:
I like her but she won’t want to go out with me. I can’t talk to her. I don’t want to be hanging here waiting for her.
What should I do? I don’t want to ruin our friendship by telling her how I feel but I cant keep on holding it in like this.
Thanks For any help,
A
Dear A
Dude, can you get me this girl’s MSN so i can WARN HER ABOUT YOU!?! I think you need to be focusing on more-cooling yourself rather than FOOLING yourself over this girl, heh, see how fooling and cooling rhyme? anyway, you know that she’s not into you so move on, she was dared to hit on you and you obliged cos you “felt sorry for her” uh um, you are deluded – she felt sorry for YOU, not the other way around. unless you felt sorry for her for being dared to speak to you then that’s ok i would feel sorry for her too.
and this “together” time when the fuck was that, in your dreams?
of course it’s easy for you to chat on MSN and not in real life, on msn you’re boss, real life, you are a socially awkward almost 16 year old. sixteen year old highschool girls want to get with older guys, ie, NOT YOU.
you say you like her but she won’t want to go out with you, you spelled it out exactly you should make that into a big poster and hang it over your bed. you can’t force love or like or anything so let it go and get back to shakespeare dude.
ps. sub-geeks are always nice to everyone cos they have to be. bye.
pps. thanks for “summarizing it” for me because you are obviously ten times more organized and smarter than i am and i would totally not have gotten the point of your letter had it not been for you so generously “summarizing it” for me.
