so fil won’t let me go into the bathroom with him to inspect the blemish on his forehead that i nicely pointed out when he was being catty to me, so i walk in to the kitchen into a gaggle of fags with my goblet of red wine in my right hand and one sweater-vested homo dramatically raises his hand whilst telling a story and knocks the bottom of my goblet and sends a beautiful arc of red wine up into the air and it smashes down onto the sweater of another homo and everyone cheers. dude spilled something on these other fag’s couch the previous week. but the dude tells the entire party it was my fault all nite long and demands permission to fondle my boyfriend all nite long. fine, deal.

though i wasn’t made aware of how much the fondling actually was cos fil didn’t want me to kick the dude’s ass. whatever, we’ll see how you react when i tell you how much i get fondled some other nite in the future and kept it a secret cos i didn’t want you to get angry.

there is no difference here, fil being straight and fawned over, no double-standard is allowed like it would be ok if dykes grabbed at me all nite long but if straight dudes did it is not the same as fags grabbing at fil.

fag likes fil, fag grabs fil.

straight guy likes raymi, straight guy grabs at raymi.

see?