Weird to feel body-shamed or shame of body for posting it here weird that I am cringing right now mentally?? when I am so hugely confident what is it like oh ya I’ve circled the wagons on all platforms now to add something here too. at night I’m a livewire for ideas and topics here and it’s so evident I am scattered and stretched thin but it’s coming together or will be.

just came across this interesting post on threads that is kinda pertinent..

there’s something so satisfying about seeing people’s Nasty energy come out that you clocked as weird. especially when you’ve kept it private. Ugh God it’s so good. But also a teensy part of me is also like “IT TOOK YALL LONG ENOUGH!”

ps. hit up my raymitheminx.substack.com for more loosey-goosey heheheh.

and via the app is fun/desktop http://substack.com/@raymitheminx if you know you know. substack is Onlyfans for writers streets are saying. what took me so ling was the comeback.

here’s what i posted on mine today along with my chestsicles.

hey buddies yesterday was lovely i walked like a psycho and am going longer distances like it ain’t no thing i might bike today instead we’ll see, i dig the music part of the leisure sport and cycling while being a music video in my head is dangerous shit i am very absent-minded so no music if bike, music video if walk kk.

my face was red from the sun had to reapply my spf tint before the meeting so i was very tanned last night LOL and my face was hot from coffee and shyness when i stood up jumped up skipped down to get my 11 month chip my face was BURNING i am very very shy then when i spoke later on during the share circle i almost passed out from the adrenaline rush thru my body it’s totally a drug but i learned that i need to man the fuck up and be less of a child, speak with discernment and no offense but who the fuck cares about me or knows me, no one so i have to tell tell tell the story better way better and get right to the meat and the funny. i will fucking do this! it’s my destiny now here’s my tits.

so subscribe, ya?

https://raymitheminx.substack.com/p/chewsday

accidentally drew lipstick all over my lips like a crayon lol.

leave a comment so i know im real.

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AM short-circuiting. doing everything BUT writing my book but it’s okay it’s cooling off and we’re winding down from summer now we’re almost there.

Picture a ship at sea and preparing for that voyage.

You’re getting all the goods, provisions, and shit on board bla blah we can have endless fun with this metaphor of me finally fucking writing I already stood at the window just now like a mega-hurtbag cliché, staring at the sheep I just fed and tended then I split indoors with Chester.

Chicken wings next will be coming into my life oh god I can’t wait OKAY I’ll crank this out here then everyone will be jazzed about me fucking off social media for awhile (as if) but no, for quite some bit, to tear into the book. THE BOOK THIS FUCKING BOOOOOOK!

It serves as this fantasy neverland myth of mental relief the holy grail, it will save me and all sins, atoned. A guide map to me. Maybe I will learn about myself maybe, I’ve had my fill. Less talking more doing. This blog post is a guilty pleasure treat tho. You need to have more of what you love in your life. In your days. Fundamentally it should go that way for all. My ethos is the pursuit of joy. It is like, an obsession.

Everything that I do is something I love.

When I buy eight cases of San Pellegrino it is because I love myself. When I splurged on my fantasy overalls, it’s because I love me and why restrict something that one day I planned to do, I made a mental note about and struck it from my to do list. Bucket lists! Yes. That’s my era I am living like I am dying, you know what I’m saying? You do.

It’s all about perspective. Eating to live rather than living to eat. ha ha!

This is maroon/red. A thrifted vibe. Leaving the picture huge I don’t care I am the boss here.

A masculine day. I got this shirt during a relapse period, late last summer, only wear it sober. Blue is cosmetic.

There is something I don’t like about this picture of me. It’s the eye contact. It looks insane.

Yesterday was adorable tho I love my Shannon.

Here I did this before writing this blog post. In my puttering era too i need shit to do to stay off my phone. I am getting into the Lizzie Borden thing on Netflix now and then I will binge the Willy Wonka competition show omg yay. Then Survivor too. Shannon said I couldn’t audition for Survivor, uhh, I about lit her tf up on that one I tell you what LOL.

Hopefully I am eating chicken wings right now as you look at this bye! leave a vomment thanks.

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I been sleeping on this selfie since I took it.

Hair and makeup on fleek yesterday. Only once I did it later for my big social outing to town to get ice cream and thinking pot. Before this glam-up I was a little bit rat of the skid kind. My fav, right behind Gargoyle and trash lady from the Labryinth. Sometimes I am Ruby Sue from Christmas Vacation.. but then also Blossom when it’s a big nose day. My bro keeps me humble don’t worry.

Hi new people and old.

Was thinking in the crapper ’bout the past just a bit of reflection nahhmsayin and I was chuckling thinking how I would go days without moderating my blog comments which was a problem because my fans were ravenous for the water cooler hangs that my vomments sections brought.

I had to moderate because of trolls that I did not and would not trust to wreak havoc on my beloved raymitheminx domain and thus, I employed a friend to mod for me when we went away for a week and this happened more than once. He was SO addicted to the racket that he would check comments for new ones when HE KNEW I WASN’T GONNA BE REPLYING TO ANY TIL I GOT BACK. This was pre-facebook so when Facebook came around we were like, so what, why? Also with twitter, I had to be forced to adopt the trend as I already had a thriving community in the palm of my hand. So those on it before me only were so because they were not popular like me (Carrie!)

Later on when I would link my blog posts to facebook to drive traffic my godmother said but where is the blog post?? People lost the ability to understand that they can go outside of facebook that there is internet outside of facebook. To get people these days to click off their platform to go to something else is a feat. If ur og (original gangster) like me u have seen it all and u know what I am saying.

Ps. my blog is 27 on Nov 28th!!!!

and so, my comment section was lit and fun and caused mischief and I have been told that I am very good at the comment. leaving them on other blogs too it was a whole network of us and if I was jelly of someone else’ post I would have to troll them to stand out, that was the name of the game. Years flew by. I did not properly monetize a thing and I did a lot of freebies.. so what, just a bit bitter as now the tools exist to cash in (still ain’t too late).

Can you believe going days without reading emails or checking comments and Facebook doesn’t exist. I would leave my laptop at the condo because the cottage didn’t have wi-fi what’s the point then fill up my SD card on my camera with pics because I couldn’t dump the pics so u keep deleting one of 5 pics of a sunset all weekend long. Now I check notifications more than inhaling and exhaling it’s beyond a sickness and I recognize it in others and ofc in myself. I can lock-in for hours standing still that’s why I will never have cellulite.

Not checking emails and comments for days was a tactic of my partner I believe to have me all to himself. You would think he would spend one minute out of that week gassing me up ever or telling me I am pretty and fun but nope, never got validated by my man because he thought I got enough from all of you from my blog from an entity that was not human but yet human, he thought he got to fall short. I wish I told him straight. We might have made it. I didn’t see a way for people to stop being moody tho, that’s my number one hatred. That and hearing people yawn for attention.

Thru this blog many doors have opened for me. I have made many friend and some foe. It anchors me, soothes me. I learn. We laugh. I feel less alone. I wished for messageboards before they existed and somehow getting my journals shared en masse I thought I would leave one in the park with a log for people to sign it out, I was 11 come on LOL. I’ve got some missing journals and I am desperate to know who took them off me when I was hammered. I planned to scan and publish them. FUCKKKKKKKKKK (ok putting that nagging thought away).

Anyway, back to this blog. I gotta find a pic for this post now, publish it, share it on ig, substack https://substack.com/@raymitheminx, fb and twitter. then edit my Orchard bar SSS Short sex story for substack and a smoldering photograph THEN wash my damn hair I am turning into one of the feral kids from Texas chainsaw massacre that helps Jessica Biel escape RAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRR.

RIP SARAH

I will be extra Raymazing for you today kiddo!

I noticed you weren’t commenting or engaging and i am ever so glad I reached out in time.

To all my little Raymis with health issues or going MIA or goin thru something, please let me know because worrying is my sport of interest PLEASE don’t go dippin’ on me. Serious.

RLW ESQ.

Did you subscribe to my Youtube channel yet it’s free!!!

Getting real close now to getting attacked by a sheep. Is it worth it for the ‘gram?

Count your blessings everything in life is temporary.

Oh ya, my stalker got love-bombed all summer long, mocked me, copied me, and was smug BUT he dumped her ass and kicked her out! Now she’s grifting off her son she was a deadbeat mother to. Carrie you suck! Karma finds its way eh maybe u shouldn’t have stalked and harassed and tormented a mentally vulnerable woman in Canada for over twenty years!!!!! I shake when I write about you, proof u are toxic and terrible for me. We are enjoying the smoke and mirrors performance too tho maybe u should open up and be honest for once with yourself?

lets see if she replies she usually does

“still working on my book but I need to level up, what do u do when u feel a plateau, when u know ur ace at your craft and the work is coming, will come and be glorious, but u want an adrenaline surge of validation during the in-betweens rush of publication dopamine. I am looking for my marketing lever. I think I just want people to know so I dont have to do the work and write it all. overwhelming. thanks for listening LD.”

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I lost over 3 hours of productivity today because I did not take my own advice. My brain operates at warp speed so u throw some ragebait at it and Kablammo. the people who know you irl and know this about you then do that to you anyway. BYE Goodbye girl BYE!

now no more of this fucking shit.

Lol how wild i was playing this video im about to upload and even #Gemini chimed in, I guess my phone robots are getting sick of the haterade too. prepare for lots of reels muahaha. subscribe to http://raymitheminx.substack.com u do NOT wanna miss out today. Raining Raymi minxiness down on there today.
winkity wink wank.

my hair is not grey/white lol despite how it looks here.

I am so tired of other people trying to bring me down who are in my own realm and they know it yet keep trying and I am trying to be vague here on WHO the repeat-offender is. I can’t instagram from desktop so you will just have to look for the video with the sunshine sticker covering my tits. It’s a headache cross-pollinating from X Substack and FB and IG man it’s frying me, just figure it out. I am on level with journalists and politicians so for security purposes I can’t multi-task from instagram on my laptop and have it open on my phone at the same time. it sucks.

I think I might break into the Giantess fetish market, it seems like a natural thing for me to do. It’s when guys like to pretend they are teeny tiny and you smoosh miniatures with your hands and butt and make them so scared you will pick them up like you’re king kong and then smother them in your cleavage. Fun!

Seriously I carved my own path and I am on it. Get on board or GTFOut of the way.

whatever hasn’t made it here is definitely on my substack and/or twitter (X).

https://raymitheminx.substack.com/

https://x.com/raymitheminx

make sure to follow along and also subscribe to my youtube channel as my ocd makes me flip stuff there, even stuff i dont overkill post on FB or substack kk. I need to make 1000 subscribers then more magic can happen. please help. this is me walking around begging for food because I am not an influencer according to some fat slob restauranter asshole who doesn’t even fucking know me. Please give me free food!! As in, subscribe to my YouTube channel that will nourish me! see how Rob just brang more toxic douchebags? you are who you hang out with.

https://www.youtube.com/@raymilauren

and now I leave you with my song about Rage. Your rage for me. lol go suck a cock! BYE!

mastered version and the original recording too.

another scary thing is, some people are SO critical and have you in their sights that it doesn’t matter what I am doing or saying here I’ll still catch strays from their stupid asshole mouths. You deserve the blasting right back seeing as you put so much passion into your opinions of me. Do yourself a favour and shut up. U don’t get flies in your mouth when it’s closed.

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I wrote that a few weeks ago because I was going to expand on that talking point but I’ll just let it simmer for now. This domain needed some love so here we are on the raymi the minx merry ground ride at the park in the bad side of town.

think of this post as a live growing document a living organism as I will be adding to it as my moods change and more memories surface…

a colleague told me my online behaviour is causing problems for him but he won’t say which brands and I don’t care because last I checked these brands ain’t sending checks my way so keep talking and not reaching out directly to me. Scandal is good for business. It’s my scandal and I’ll laugh if I want to. It’s 2026 and the smarter brands rub shoulders in the trenches with the cool kids. Be part of the conversation but obviously i do care i am so sick of people talking about me behind my back and not to my face and deprive me of the fight I want to have. So rude. My comments are always open.

not suppose to scare of brands in case u dont get any more uhh ok there brand ghosts lol girl bye. I would never fuck with my bag, if we do a gig I never talk shit about u after the fact. In fact, I removed a post about something I said before about something that did happen just to avoid the headache, no questions asked deleted. that’s how I move. I have been blacklisted and “friends” gatekeeping me from brand deals and gigs in the past like crazy just for who I am yet everyone is reading still. One person I forget who wanted me to hype them for free on my blog and I said sure pay me, this is before instagram I am telling u I have been hustling before everyone! anyway they were so rude at the thought of paying for my taste-making services so it didn’t happen. Weeks later I get an email from their newly-hired PR person begging me for the opportunity to post about this same moron on my blog, and that was their awareness strategy blitz idea: to go to raymi the minx for a post! I was the only show in town really and a huge audience like, why would I blog u for free on this one-of-a-kind platform I created out of thin air that I put my whole body mind and spirit into…

So you paid someone else to help promote you and their big idea was to ask me, the same person you told off lol. So then I had to explain that to the pr person that I had already been approached by that guy and he refused to pay for my plug & now he’s got you and is paying you to get him known and you’re asking me to plug him, do we not see how cringe this is?

also I am willing to work with brands and listen to them and what they want and willing to tone it down as well whatever the ask is. I’m not just gonna get paid then nuke them on social media after the fact but thanks for continuously not taking chances on me and the same boring tired safe clean wholesome white phony white women instead OH MY GOD TELL ME ABOUT YOUR SKINCARE ROUTINE.

Can’t be trendy in a fucking vacuum.

It's a mom thing. I'm staying til Friday. Bro wants to come hang with me too I am so popular. pic.twitter.com/T0uF4nCIPN

— RAYMI THE MINX (@raymitheminx) July 29, 2026

waiting on these votes to come in too.

THESE ARE THE FIVE CHAPTERS i HAVE WRITTEN SHORT SEX STORIES THAT ARE READY TO GO. I am the girl in every story but I gave the girl a different stupid name I dunno why tho LOL. vote in the comments which one I should post first.

Maisy and the Foot guy

Mary Anne’s fake accent

I know my choice!

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CLICK TO GO TO RAYMITHEMINX.SUBSTACK.COM as you should…

Hilo blog I’m sorry I’m just a little scattered and busy.

My next post here will be a good one I promise but for now I’ll just point to my substack. there’s an area on substack there called notes where ppl (other substack authors) hang out and you see their micro-posts which are like tweets. I love it and I post a lot of content there if you’re an avid-Raymi hunter for that kinda crap.

I’ll give ya a lil something here too tho.. and, we’re getting there on my abs journey.

We are also getting there on my ice cream eating journey which is a sabotage setback and I have valid reasons for every cheating thing that I have defiantly consumed. As well as my stress-dipping thin cantina chips one thousand times into sour cream while watching Love Island and fighting with people on X about Love Island then tracking my viral posts where-in I have successfully roasted an islander and their stans are coming for me in droves journey. God this season cannot wrap soon enough.

Had a power outage for a few days out here starting Canada Day, a storm’s wind knocked over 10 hydro poles during this mega-heatwave. v grateful to Mel for having us over.

welp. bye for now, you know where to find me. adios.

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Hi okay, hi hi, yeah, yeah, yeah let’s get all this fanfare and fuss out of the way now.

I just read my homework notes from Emily‘s talk we had last week re: my book and I really need to strap in.

I was a little bit overwhelmed and concluded FUCK THIS BOOK I can’t do this but like, it’s only 9am why am I already quitting?

This is what extreme anxiety is like. You are pretty much useless and anything you do achieve is actually a pat on the back but anyway, I said NO to those thoughts, go blog, and here I am.

I swear I have the maturity level of a fucking jelly bean yes I see it too but isn’t it just wonderful!

I think so. If you can just tap dance thru life like a stupid fucking moron then you have got it figured out. More or less.

in between drug deals with the guy I was dating at the time. I am 19 yrs old, an online model in secret, a famous it girl blogger dating a scary dealer in Toronto on my way to a nervous breakdown.

I have a list of words and each word is a chapter to build from and Emily said 30-40 chapters about so I fired off a list while we were on that call. Emily emailed her minutes too thank god.

Structure is my enemy but I love routine and need it, close to bringing it all together now. Emily’s notes are so good and my immediate opportunistic thought is to share them here with you but you can’t do that, you have to save it. I am so impulsive that’s why blogging is intoxicating I get immediate dopamine hits when I share everywhere in lieu of saving chapters for a book then experiencing better gains then instead and more. wtv I need a fucking podcast yesterday and my friend from grade school’s daughter watches my instagram bullshit and told her mom I should do Onlyfans yeah yeah I know we’ll get there.

At this rate it will be forty years til I publish my book and then we can call it my opus fuckin’turd get it done.

here’s my list of words tho, I will redact some..

Sadness
Hospital
Webcam
Blog
Rehab
Mania
9/11
Six months in mansions
Holland
Maine
LA psychosis
Toronto
M___
___ muskoka
Beaches
Burlesque
Family
Internet
Social media
Insecurity
Anger
Humour
Dreams
Bingeing tv
OCD
Bipolar

Let me know if I am missing anything lol kk ttyl xo don’t be a Chooch!

ps. you know I love my definitions…

“Chooch” is Italian-American slang for a fool, dummy, or goofball, often used playfully among friends or family.

Its playful nature makes it suitable for casual conversation but less appropriate in professional or unfamiliar contexts.
In short, a chooch is a lovable fool or goofball, a term that blends Italian heritage with American slang, often used to poke fun at someone without causing offense

speed reading here I don’t see anything about Jersey Shore hmm…

Don’t forget to subscribe to my substack btw you can for free dumbass cheapskate tf.

SUBSCRIBE CLICK LINK BOOMER RAYMITHEMINX.SUBSTACK.COM THANKS

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Hello hello hello!

Thanks for riding through my crash-out the other day I am better now. Everything is sorted and booked all I gotta do is ride my anxiety adrenaline thru the airport and visualize standing in lines and not sleeping and hearing noises oh god I exhaust myself. I have charged my earpods.

I’m not gonna prepare a speech just well, prepare something, I am collecting funny anecdotes to mention and memories to share. Yesterday I recited an entire Ted Talk on grief during my walk and it actually flowed rather nicely but ion think it would go that way in reality. The last time I spoke at a funeral I was Courtney Love-coded. This time I plan to be more chill but we won’t know for certain until we see how much sleep I get tomorrow night.

Today’s agenda is another powerwalk then decide what to pack MINIMALLY do my nails watch Love Island USA whiten teeth lift weights make my kale before it goes bad I guess check-in for our flights, accept the fact that the money I spent on this is worth it and don’t be bitter or angry that traveling within Canada is so fucking criminally expensive like wtf two grand for flights/hotel coulda gone to friggin’ literally anywhere ok ok chill there’s opportunity for that another time don’t be such a Debbie Downer. Real talk, I am still grieving the loss of my friend and I am mad that I am going back again this summer which was the plan to visit again but not like this. Now that i’m not a shut-in alcoholic loser anymore I actually want to do things and would have enjoyed having my friend around longer for that. I am able to compartmentalize it better because I don’t live there but this past week has brought up all the feelings I’ve been suppressing. Whatever that’s life and apparently I need to grow up.

You have lived quite the life

— Lorazafan (@lorazafan) June 4, 2026

yes I have. when ppl say I do nothing I look back at all this shit and say I have done enough buddy. next chapter is pretty excellent too. ps. below deck finale, i cried.

— RAYMI THE MINX (@raymitheminx) June 4, 2026

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— RAYMI THE MINX (@raymitheminx) June 4, 2026

I remember every mean thing that ever gets said to me and it happens often. I’m sick of it. I will vent about that another day though. I try not to be defensive but you can tell in the way I write I am always defending myself. People need to catch up and recognize that I ain’t taking their shit anymore and that this is who I am. Period.

Okay I’m over it time to hydrate BYE FELICIA

What’s your favourite Blue Jays jersey colour on me?

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Hey what’s good I feel lost right now maybe I will find myself writing on my blog — feel like I’ve reached the ceiling today posting fb memories and getting lost in the abyss of twitter (X, whatever) notifications holy hell being niche twitter famous is an investment in time management of which I have none but anyway it’s interesting trying to cover all bases with a variety of nature videos selfies memes garbage reality tv hashtag opinions (specifically Euphoria, Below Deck, and whatever else I am bingeing quickly and instantly forgetting all about) reply guys blue jays food pics dog videos cats walks and then talking to my weirdo friends from the internet and irl, what a privilege it is to be me.

I am “finding myself” here now as well because I am actively avoiding doing something that I have long since put off all month or so and now it’s D day week to get’er done so I am pro-crastibating with the blog post but it’s okay I got a loose system in place here there’s pieces in motion ahah okay stoner mystery speak just shut up. I will let you know when I am ready I am trying to minimize damage always it’s like, a must, with the big mouth that I got and the stupid crap that I do plus no filter. I am flooded with that feeling of dread like it’s the night before your essay is due that you did fuck all all month long for. I carry that feeling almost daily lol.

I’ve just gotta book some flights and hotels and co-ordinate all that together and like use my brain and focus two things that I do not at all enjoy doing in the slightest you know that song I just want to bang on my drum all day, that’s the quintessential definition of my belief systems + life practices essentially, if I don’t do the opposite of “locking-in” I will basically crash out. Which sucks but I don’t make the rules I can only follow them and so normally my buddy would be holding my hand throughout all of this and guiding me but he is dead now so it’s ironic that I have to adult-it solo-mish in order to make it to his celebration of life this weekend and I am taking my brother because I don’t want to go alone and we know my mom is gonna flip out so I didn’t want to say what it is that I am panicking over because I don’t want to deal with that hassle – I suffer enough from travel anxiety as is.

See how much OCD people/anxious people torture themselves? It’s very real. Talking about it helps alleviate it. I saw that Deena and Vinny on Jersey Shore (which I am bingeing right now I can’t believe I didn’t already mention it above they are dominating my parasocial circle at the moment) suffer from what I suffer too: anxiety & OCD and lately I’ve been thinking I am AUDHD so when I see my shrink later this month I will be hard-launching the rest of my neuro-spiciness onto her see how that goes. Trying to get as many diagnoses over here and break some records jkjk.

When I die (knock on wood) I think that my brain should definitely be studied for science and if only there was a way they could later on tell me about it like how Walt Disney is waiting around for them to cure dying. lol aw I get it. If I were Walt Disney I would totally want to stick around.

I spoke with a few friends yesterday and Mel was over (i’m in the country right now he’s a buddy from town friend of bf’s and mine) and I fielded a few calls from various people after a few on auto-pilot I hung up and said and now that is how I get thru my day lol I am like a prisoner trapped in this cog of wheels that do not stop turning in my head it’s kind of exhausting but I am used to it by now when I have a moment of pause to reflect a wave of fatigue tries to settle and it’s like I could either sleep for a hundred years OR I could get up and do infinity fucking arm curls right now LFG then I’ll try to see how long I have been sitting hunched over for and if I need to pee so I’ll get up. I remember as a kid not being able to sleep at night and now I know why. I mean, I would lay awake thinking about all kinds of shit knowing everyone was sleeping I didn’t recognize this as racing thoughts dressed up as insomnia. It’s brutal. I can’t even sleep with my boyfriend. People who can fall asleep while I am on edge alert from the quiet tick of a clock and the hum of a fridge. I can identify every little noise in your house but then other times I am kinda deaf. Next post we can discuss my declining memory. Oof.

Okay is any of this neurotic bullshit even interesting I dunno just please don’t tell my mom yet until I talk to my brother and book my flights okay this is your test if you rat me out you’re banished from the Raymi fan club, I’m revoking your special ring.

See ya later haters!

Update: flights booked $1484. Hotels next.

Jules and I over a decade ago. She just got married sorry.

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it’s a rush when the pieces start pieceing.

200 days. it’s like that 200 cigarettes movie except not.

I just checked my blog traffic and it’s um, quite high, lol.

Over the years I have spun my wheels on various social media platforms to maintain my online presence, yes, all those years being a covert watcher non-participant was all for this very look-at-me moment.

thx twitter. remember when i vowed to do less of you lol. it’s at 80k now i wish i was monetizing fackkkk me. soon. you will pay for these words lol. lol? yep. lol all the way to the bank!

Whatever, what do you say to people anymore on the internet here? I feel like I am split personalities everywhere I am. Twitter? that’s ratchet Raymi. Facebook? a little classier, just a little. Instagram, there I am most attention-seeking of all. The possibilities of instagram are endless if you are clever enough and I feel as though I am hunting for my next big thing over there but this time as delusional as that sounds, I’ma make it LOL.

You have to big yourself up if you’re gonna achieve anything and within the crazy there is excellence of fuck I dunno, something just finally lands right. I took my hat out of the ring for a long time but now I am here to announce that I am a gun for hire and if you want some of that overspill shine come and get it. That Hansel is so hot right now as they say.

I remember years ago in my twenties having arguments “business discussions* with potential VC’s about my brand and it boiled down to with one person the “get hit by a car theory” that if they invested all this into me and then I go and died on them. Okay that was more than 20 years ago I am still here buddy. Do you think they told that same shit to HANNAH MONTANA, LADY GAGA, HILARY DUFF, literally anyone better and more deserving than me? Likely not.

Also what is my brand what am I giving the world who DO tenaciously read and follow along, potential cu$tomers I have all been long-conning love-bombing for fucking years. All I am asking (begging) is for an editor to give me a writing collaborator to help organize a book. Then proceed from there. This is how I level up. I am going to take cues from the manosphere to blogmaxx my potential and as my my physique tones tans and hair grows all at once combining to dominate my comeback arc. It’s giving main character.

What would Pee-Wee Herman do? Exactly!

Podcast. Another thing I was always thinking to do because I love a good blabbity blah and it’s truly always an adventure plus I would have a different person on each podcast episode as they do, some being old Raymi characters. Could you imagine if I featured exes and haters? um no. it would flow just like a phone call and be as simple as it could possibly be because that is all the energy I can muster, too many moving parts, it aint happening.

Okay gonna cut this short it’s tan o’clock my homies.

Just remember, go thru life with the passion dedication and self fucking confidence as a crazy rich successful person might. To soar you must jump and to jump remove the fear. I will try to stop being a life coach (no I won’t). Spreading wisdoms always!

See ya

ps I think I’m going to take dance classes again. just putting it out there.

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