Hello fellow blog stans, what’s good!! You are? Great. Well that’s just, really something isn’t it okay enough of the jibber jabber lets get down to it, your shero completed 365 days of sobriety from alcohol so now I will count in months (as well as lowkey by numbers the OCD is real) AND I learned a new quote, and it is some of us are loud about our sobriety because we almost died in silence.

That fucking blew me away.

Never something rang so true to me before like that, so fucking powerful. SO REAL. I was dying quietly sharing reels with y’all tee-hee “this is us” ha ha LOL. We talk about our struggle, the journey, and the achievements because we can. When there is something tangible, a milestone, you shout that shit out loud.

Recently (as yesterday and this morning) had a discussion with someone who left a TMI RUDE public comment on my FB about how much I was really drinking and all these young kids are going sober now to which I LIT THE FUCK UP.

Um. Do not frame MY sobriety and compare it to other Gen-z trendy non-drinkers never were drinker kids, how dare you question my alcoholism and to publicly try to drag me (I know that wasn’t the intent but it is how it literally appears) in my feed of over a hundred people congratulating me on my sobriety then saying sorry I didn’t really know how to do that BRO U ARE A GROWN MAN COMMENTING PUBLICALLY TO A WOMAN INSTEAD OF PRIVATELY ASKING YOUR INVASIE JUDGMENTAL QUESTIONS (oh yeah name five songs style podcast manosphere line of questioning might I add) seriously why are men? Why play dumb, just fucking stop it I have no energy for all these fucking little fights I’m always in with stupid people stepping over the line it short circuits my logic and it distracts me.

Oh and to the troll in the comments of my last post:

raymi says:
November 11, 2026 at 8:03 am (Edit)
okay troll, there’s an abundant amount of archives here to verify my intelligence, do not come directly TO HERE THEN u may directly go to FUCK OFF instead, if u dont want my boobs. I also have a picture of your house directly in Uxbridge.

Des says:
November 10, 2026 at 3:33 pm (Edit)
Hope to see your brains, not your boobs.

was this post enough brains for you there bud? A classic tactic internet men employ to women when they can’t go for their looks is their minds, and I see it. BABY I BEEN DOING THIS FOX TROT SINCE I WAS 17 AND I USED MY BOOBS TO GET PEOPLE TO STAY FOR MY BRAINS.

But, here’s my boobs too just for the sake of the argument.

TA DA.

hit me up on raymitheminx.substack.com where u can keep the lights on at raymitheminx.com RIGHT here and in my heart too. HOW’S THAT FOR BRAINS U POS! I also have a picture of your house in Uxbridge and your address.

Who loves ya?

Raymi.

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