raymitheminx.substack.com (please subscribe!) was the best decision I made this summer. One day I was sitting in front of my wordpress template and like all the hours of effort that was about to go into my blog post here on rtm was fine but it’s like spinning my wheels and expecting greatness and then several MORE hours of bugging my network to go read it and then 2 friends commenting way to go Raymi yahhhh something needs to change.

I needed to spread the news more. So, I did a little focus, finally sucked it up to finish setup and my only wish was I wish I started sooner. Not apologizing for what I am doing here, my age is irrelevant and I am more than my incredible tits. We’re in the funhouse and find out era of all the crap I ever did before in life and lived to tell the tales. Rob, why would I write about boring shit that has nothing to do with me when EVERYTHING to do with me is comedy entertainment “messy” gold! I got one lil Raymi commenting on my stories THIS IS SO ENTERTAINING and now they’re mailing me care packages. I am their selected star that they have access to. Remember YOU hired me for a blog talk when I was in my twenties?

I love the inevitable crash out and backlash. You are cute.

Sorry but suffice it to say Raymi the minx is like cockroaches, after the blast hits, we still here.

You can tell one is smaller eh? embarrassing! Not as embarrasing as in gr 4 when only one popped out first for like months and just the little nipple. elem school kids are brutal man I feel like making a group chat of a select group of peeps from elem school and bring up the past! They would just love it eh!? LOL. What an effective use of my time. I actually pursue all dumb things like this because my brain thinks YAY BLOG CONTENT it all evens out. Turns out that chronic need to document and hoard and plan for another post will make you super anxious. Healthy!

It's no coincidence that everyone of my era and generation is either crashing out hard or wilding out right now. What you're witnessing is the effects en masse of people in the finding out the negative effects of social media era. I hated writing that fucking statement

— RAYMI THE MINX (@raymitheminx) August 6, 2026

Feel free to expand upon what I think I mean here. Between Perez and Ariana these days, shit’s fucked.

Oh there’s a lil nip slip I didn’t know was there til one of my simps said so. The rest of the uncensored ones can be found shortly on RAYMITHEMINX.SUBSTACK.COM kk just plug in your email address and also make an account because this what it looks like inside my miiiiind.

adding this because I just posted it on FB and well why not share it here too. I am an angry woman at her wit’s end and big mouth on it lately bcos ppl been getting too comfortable not acting right…

seriously. seeing people be abusive and toxic to you on-repeat when you tell them to stop and they keep doing it anyway and then you blow a gasket because you see what they are doing and anticipate it, then they gaslight that they’re “doing nothing” to you. ALL that results in for me is an even bigger explosion down the road. The more you invalidate me and push me, make me feel powerless in lieu of peace and harmony which is actually fully attainable, YOU are the problem. You are the common denominator. Without fail. I am here only for good times. I am not suffering from your moods too. I take care of my own. You don’t even take care of your own emotional bullshit. And I am sick of repeating myself. How is it that I am the one who has a counselor and is sober and medicated yet no one else who is wilding out on me is taking care of their own mental health? Just focused on me and mine. I am not your punching bag so say less to me.

we’re handing out examples here so if you wanna be made one of too just LMK.

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age 19 and age 43.

I am not sorry to be proud of myself and say that I am proud because I AM PROUD.

Blake Lively in a Simple favor tells Anna Kendrick to stop apologizing and saying sorry it’s a terrible habit women have. men never fucking apologize so stop it. DONE.

speaking of men… today I have decided to shame some here and not redact their names because I have already uploaded the images to flickr and their comments are public so if they wanna trash on women tied to their personal profiles alrighty then. You a big man eh, well let’s see just how big you are going thru Raymi the Minx’s ringer of learning the meaning of respect (shout-out uncle John).

context:

Here we see George Costanza aka Jason Alexander with an actress who is 17 years old at the time this scene was filmed. Her name is Courtney A Stodden. Here is what she said about filming a provocative scene as a minor with him and if any chuds say “allegedly” to any of her fucking statement, just know that I am picturing rearranging your face and posting a picture of the After results on my wall.

Here is the link to the facebook thread on this post BTW I am about to link it there oh man adrenaline surge I gott pee all of a sudden. blogging makes me anxious ughhh.

and now we hit the comments and leave our own experience as a comment because that is how social media works, I was in a movie and Actra sent me a woman to babysit so this crap wouldn’t happen. I had a robe and my own dressing room.

I can’t even write a hot take about my hot take my blood is boiling right now. Both of these guys were fb contacts of mine as well. I am way too lenient on who I add but it’s okay bc every election or anything, these ppl reveal themselves to me and get blocked or block me after they pitch a mega-tantrum.

I went thru this guy’s fb for ugly pictures to shame but gave up. when I publish this I will link my post to both those guys and in the fb thread too. When men attack women for wanting breast implants so we can be attractive to those men and feel like a woman in general, and these same men look at porn and thirst over hot chicks, but they chastise them for it. What are you saying to young women about this? SHE IS WARNING THEM YOU FUCKING IDIOT. And she was a young woman! and her tits were already big what is even your fucking point??

I love the endless gaslighting men instantly jump to in the comments. Energy vampires. Well guess what today is your lucky day! Bet you’re not gonna forget this fly-by disrespectful woman-bashing comment are ya now!?

facts. men understand consent in a gay bar but now when a vulnerable drunk insecure woman if in their sights, things get all murky there for whether or not it is good or bad to proceed in molesting that injured bird. This makes me want to go just sit in a bar for hours waiting and watching for my moment to spring into vigilante justice because this shit keeps happening and keeps happening and keeps happening, don’t it.

and if ya got any problems with anything else yall are invited to eat my ass after I shit.

-Sol, Love Island USA 2026

Level up time, ready shreddy?

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Hello hello, happy Monday. Hot ‘nough for ya? I apologize in advance for every thing that I am going to say based on sleep deprivation. It was torture trying to get proper sleep last night, so humid. We are still w/o A/C by choice but as each passing heatwaved day goes by it seems to be like, not, a good? choice.

We have been rocking a few fans and it was working great blowing all the hot air all around haha no but we closed the window last night and the bedroom turned into a sauna so I was up early on the couch where turns out I am too tall for so can’t really sleep properly there.

However, we are blessed there are far more suffering out there this is entitlement-complaining, gross, just sharing why I feel behind today.

One particular by-product bonus of weekday life is, in the wee morning hours on Paramount there is a Bar Rescue marathon and I am wholly-inspired by John Taffer’s stripping down, peg after peg, of business owner’s royal establishment fuck-ups en masse. He watches them on secret-camera from the oarking lot in a van then he goes THAT’S ITTT when he’s had enough and storms inna the place guns-a-blazing. It’s the best tv best bestie best and it’s a vehicle insight into America, State after another like everything you could imagine about the place plays out through seedy custies, beer-guzzling shot-takin’ bartenders (look I am a feminist so don’t even try me about this) okay I am sure they are fine people they just ratchet as hell and are drunken-stupor unprofessional trainwrecks wasting their boss’ money away and then you come to find out that these bar owner idiots are like $300,000 to over a million dollars in debt meanwhile their employee wastecases are living the life of Riley at their IN DEBT expense, right before their casting a blind-eye to it all noses. You get to see it all including sloppy bitches asses getting handed to them courtesy of John Taffer bless his heart. My friends and I discuss this show and scream when we watch it, I actually howl and laughter-scream. The other side of the coin is that John Taffer is a compassionate man too and the show has that feel-goodism aspect to it and you will cry because these people become so grateful and then “they learn” and hug and yadda-yadda.

Anyway, I find it comforting to see the trainwreck part of it as it’s just so extreme. It’s sad and grotesque seeing people in financial ruin played out on tv. I think we all find it all to be comforting (while disgusting) like how many things we get to bear witness to online every day the 24/7 news hour cycle rotation truly never stops. There is one atrocity after another, another Karen story after another like can you women just stop? Why so unhinged right now?

These types have always existed but thanks to the beautiful digital era that we live in THEY SEEM TO BE EVERYWHERE NOW. So I am thinking, why are they like this? Not all women implode like this surely, but this about to erupt at any moment breed is so truly heinous right now, and rampant. Is it the heat?? Why do none of them learn to just mind their own fucking business and leave innocent POC alone? I, like John Taffer, am a hot head and if ever saw a Karen going-off oh you balieeeeeeeeve me I ain’t havin’ none of that.

I cannot stand bullies. I always defended kids in school when I saw the cool kid getting too confident and picking on the little guys you see, I got a big mouth and I know how to wield it. I think everyone should be like that you always need to be ready and willing to get in someone’s corner if they’re at a disadvantage, when people say flex your privilege no fuck that it’s called being compassionate. Being human. But yes that is a weapon too.

And everybody is pissed off right now. We have all “had enough” of the police, Trump, being lied to and fucked over, Covid, pandemic blues, fear of the future, the state of the economy and its future-effects I am not saying enjoy the ride but if you’re going through Hell just keep going a la Winston Churchill.

Know your blessings and stop being a Karen. Get it together.

Well, moving on now and I regret saying none of that.

The sunset blaring through this part in the clouds was epic. Saw a gen z’er taking a pic and it made me happy bout that.

twas a hot day we went to see friends in st catharines I wanted to flex some fashion instead of my regular uniform although everything I wear makes me hot so I prefer a string bikini tiny tank look I think I was meant to be a nudist I don’t get how people can wear clothes and not want to die every second for me it is bothersome and I don’t mean sexy kind of nude just like oh my god I can’t stand this the clothes have got to go kind. Then you just sit around sweating like hippie commune styles, well we may as well tend the garden hey?

Oh Georgie <3.

I can’t with this one. Too adorable.

Haven’t done a patio in however long it’s a marvel and a money saver but this was a nice treat.

So delicious. Inhaled. That’s a banh mi pork sandwich, excellent. Will order 3 to share next time. The pad thai was great too.

Bye Georgie, smooshy lil muppet I miss you already. We had a great time oh and turns out you are not impervious to sangria hangovers, all that sugar, ouch. Alas was a fine time so no harm no foul.

But alas again have run out of steam and have other things to do this was great will be back again tomorrow with more, ok doke bye for now xo raymi.

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