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I am trying to think of if I have ever done something else for 250 days before. Do jobs count? Lol. fuck they should, I guess so, from a resume perspective. Speaking of which, I am so LinkedIn checked-out but I have a souped-up account with a lot of thought leader contacts because networking was part of my gig before as well as I freaked out and changed it to my real name, I had to wipe a lot of shit as much as I could so I Laurened it up and I have this fantasy that one day I go back to RTM LI persona-mode and post something there out of nowhere. then like all these fuckin execs and guru bullshit artists start messaging me deals and offers lol. I swear to God being delulu actually works at least some of the time because you don’t know unless you try. What did Homer Simpson say? Bart, if you never try then you never have to fail so the moral is, to never try.

Ya no. I say disrupt like all those motherfuckers preach. Oh yeah? okay then BET.

Actually the wheels are in motion to cook a mixer up with some of these leads and whoever-the-fucks you now so if you would like to be involved in a thing, get in touch. See look, we’re already doing the thing now. Pin it!

Being sober is like a rollercoaster ride on an ever-changing track of options now that you’re with it, have energy, and the want to exist and engage. It’s great. Do I sound like an idiot with all this constant motivational crap stuff? Is it sinking in? Good because y’all could use a little help too. We should always be evolving.

I chatted with a pal and gave some wisdom the other day and maybe it’s TMI but it was on sex addiction and I was noticing patterns so I said you don’t gotta do all that you know, that addiction, that demon, the insatiable shit you’re addicted to well you are a lot sexier if you’re not constantly f—ing chicks just because you can like isn’t all that mess exhausting? Just know when shit is out of control and check yourself.. like it’s funny to hear the stories and be entertained but it gets to a point where you could really effect some change to a friend and it did, they were grateful.

In sobriety you talk about it a lot and spread it around and you don’t care as much about things that use to bother you, you gain a superpower – a fearlessness that those who are dependent on booze don’t possess because if they did then they would have the power to let down the drink, they do not, they are powerless.

I know I am and that is why I cannot do it anymore.

Sobriety is more fun and some homies are also on this path too. it’s exciting to reconnect and make plans that normal people do who aren’t sitting around drinking and doing drugs. It’s all about the journey, make that the destination. Don’t drink to escape and kill time fantasizing about a better life from your box of wine. Go thru the process of getting clean because once all that tough nonsense passes you will be sitting in a space where you are able to love yourself and remember why you are awesome and people like you and the walls aren’t caving in. Reclaim your life.

Look at me! You could be a guy like me!

see ya in the funny papers xo rlw

ps. this dance video is awesome. body is tea. my partner never danced with me and I am a hyper dancer so I started making youtube dance videos to get in shape and to make content for my blog too. The thing that really turned a corner for me was seeing the JT Ciara Love sex magic music video her body is tea and her bangs. It’s always about the bangs for me but anyway I was always about to start getting into shape again but not motivated. my ex made a fat comment to me, then I saw that music video and then it was SO ON. I locked in, got fit, then moved the fuck on. I am grateful for our time together and I have dreams sometimes of the past but essentially I released him from my minx talons so. No hard feelings. Everyone who comes into our lives are our teachers. this vid was 17 years ago but that math doesn’t add up it makes me 26 here when I am actually 24, strange. i also am sober in this, I did not smoke weed for 5 solid years and never drank during the day because I was blogging hungover instead.

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HOTTTTTTTTTTTT she sure is.

Ain’t so bad in the shade but the temp is climbing something fierce now.

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Absinthe anyone?

enjoy me getting Hallowasters at a foodie show dressed like a stewardess in my burlesque fit.
I was so shy but I did it anyway and yes alcohol helped achieve that.

Halloween weekend in Toronto. I had a burlesque show as well as this, so it was costume time!! SO fun givin’er at food shows because they get you loaded for free and blast tunes it’s just one big weird networking rave party circuit. Watch me in action. I still have brand friends from this very historical moment in time. I am also not with that guy anymore (who is filming) so ladies, don’t ever stop being you in a relationship because that shit will eventually end and you are timeless, and keep going. Could you imagine this video not existing? Get you a cameraman bf and put him to work or gtfo of your damn way sis. We had to walk back we couldn’t get cabs because it was a zombie walk in Toronto it was cold and annoying all these people acting as zombies in my face trying to scare me I was ready to fuck somebody up. Pretty funny tho. everything is funny to me. That’s the slant that I choose to see things by. Shit works!

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These are delicious. I sampled a few. I sampled several things. I left with two bags of different no sugar candies for $13 it’s my mission to score the seniors and/or student discount at bulk barn I almost winged it once. I’m coming for you 15% off Wednesdays.

I just want to stuff my hand right in there and eat a handful all at once. I’ve got free will seriously, what is stopping me? They look like erasers I know. Aren’t they adorable? I guess it’s a 90’s thing maybe the affinity for cute little things. Chotchkis, part of girlhood.

Great. And remember that I am on a crazy restrictive fucking no sugar diet and we go into here.

Yes I had one. Peach FFS! It was stale and rock hard, but good I guess. I would need to try it again. I didn’t try the watermelon one. The reason I keep being neurotic about mentioning sampling is because as Canadians we know we aren’t allowed to do this, it’s the bulk barn rules and so we love to defiantly do it. Maybe some Karens announce EXCUSE ME YOUNG MISS OH MISS I WILL BE TRYING THIS GRANOLA MIXTURE like no, the teenagers there do not gaf.

This was on 4th of July I was feeling patriotic for the Americanos. Did we get power back this day? I think so. Anyway I took a picture of these waxy little things, lemon raspberry maybe emulating that popsicle flavour?

If it were fall or winter I sure AF would inhale a roll or three of these bad boys. Sour is my weakness. What does that mean?

A guy beside me was taking pics of another bin I forget of what I tried not to focus on him because then I end up writing an essay about somebody that doesn’t at all matter but like when I do my taking pictures of stuff thing irl sometimes I will wait out people to fucking scram and other times I just do it in front of them but then it’s annoying because they get curious and I feel like I am performing being oblivious. It comes and goes, if I wanna talk to a stranger I will if I don’t they get blown off and don’t even know about it. BURN

Ya so like there’s pluses and minuses to the things we consume har har. However I will say it doesn’t hurt to keep regular.

I was taking multiple photos of this bin it was getting weird my fascination for the look of this texture. OCD hello!

I had to try a sample. Had to. For research.

I grabbed a pink one that had another pink one melted to it BONUS I scarfed them down. Living my best life. When I get around to it I will take a close-up picture of the candies I did buy, because like, why not?

THANKS FOR LOOKING AT MY CANDY PICTURES BYE

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Hilo blog I’m sorry I’m just a little scattered and busy.

My next post here will be a good one I promise but for now I’ll just point to my substack. there’s an area on substack there called notes where ppl (other substack authors) hang out and you see their micro-posts which are like tweets. I love it and I post a lot of content there if you’re an avid-Raymi hunter for that kinda crap.

I’ll give ya a lil something here too tho.. and, we’re getting there on my abs journey.

We are also getting there on my ice cream eating journey which is a sabotage setback and I have valid reasons for every cheating thing that I have defiantly consumed. As well as my stress-dipping thin cantina chips one thousand times into sour cream while watching Love Island and fighting with people on X about Love Island then tracking my viral posts where-in I have successfully roasted an islander and their stans are coming for me in droves journey. God this season cannot wrap soon enough.

Had a power outage for a few days out here starting Canada Day, a storm’s wind knocked over 10 hydro poles during this mega-heatwave. v grateful to Mel for having us over.

welp. bye for now, you know where to find me. adios.

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Hi okay, hi hi, yeah, yeah, yeah let’s get all this fanfare and fuss out of the way now.

I just read my homework notes from Emily‘s talk we had last week re: my book and I really need to strap in.

I was a little bit overwhelmed and concluded FUCK THIS BOOK I can’t do this but like, it’s only 9am why am I already quitting?

This is what extreme anxiety is like. You are pretty much useless and anything you do achieve is actually a pat on the back but anyway, I said NO to those thoughts, go blog, and here I am.

I swear I have the maturity level of a fucking jelly bean yes I see it too but isn’t it just wonderful!

I think so. If you can just tap dance thru life like a stupid fucking moron then you have got it figured out. More or less.

in between drug deals with the guy I was dating at the time. I am 19 yrs old, an online model in secret, a famous it girl blogger dating a scary dealer in Toronto on my way to a nervous breakdown.

I have a list of words and each word is a chapter to build from and Emily said 30-40 chapters about so I fired off a list while we were on that call. Emily emailed her minutes too thank god.

Structure is my enemy but I love routine and need it, close to bringing it all together now. Emily’s notes are so good and my immediate opportunistic thought is to share them here with you but you can’t do that, you have to save it. I am so impulsive that’s why blogging is intoxicating I get immediate dopamine hits when I share everywhere in lieu of saving chapters for a book then experiencing better gains then instead and more. wtv I need a fucking podcast yesterday and my friend from grade school’s daughter watches my instagram bullshit and told her mom I should do Onlyfans yeah yeah I know we’ll get there.

At this rate it will be forty years til I publish my book and then we can call it my opus fuckin’turd get it done.

here’s my list of words tho, I will redact some..

Sadness
Hospital
Webcam
Blog
Rehab
Mania
9/11
Six months in mansions
Holland
Maine
LA psychosis
Toronto
M___
___ muskoka
Beaches
Burlesque
Family
Internet
Social media
Insecurity
Anger
Humour
Dreams
Bingeing tv
OCD
Bipolar

Let me know if I am missing anything lol kk ttyl xo don’t be a Chooch!

ps. you know I love my definitions…

“Chooch” is Italian-American slang for a fool, dummy, or goofball, often used playfully among friends or family.

Its playful nature makes it suitable for casual conversation but less appropriate in professional or unfamiliar contexts.
In short, a chooch is a lovable fool or goofball, a term that blends Italian heritage with American slang, often used to poke fun at someone without causing offense

speed reading here I don’t see anything about Jersey Shore hmm…

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the revolution is here.

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Ha ha ya right like that is even possible for this guy but I find that awareness is key of any shitty thing you’re up to, call yourself on it. That’s the only way you can make change because you turn a blind eye and the who world goes blind wtf was that saying again? It’s all water under the fridge just gettin’ two birds stoned at once here.

Speaking of blind, I also wonder if that blind person is still reading my blog. I made a blind joke once upon a time in my Raymi fashion which is like borderline gaslight politically incorrect ofc. I tow the line. Anyway I got dragged for it then lo and behold I receive a comment from a blind person having my back I was like THATS RIGHT MOTHERFUCKERS WHAT I SAY HERE IS LAW but that was so fascinating to me. Blind guy said he was able to read my blog with a read to voice audio something or other in a time when my blog being read aloud to him like a robot Stephen Hawkings and you couldn’t select your desired voice preference. my bf has a famous tennis player’s voice for his GPS (he seldom uses) and so one time we’re driving to wherever the fuck and this croony sexy swarthy mysterious voice relaxing and calmly is speaking in the background behind Sirius radio playing tunes, I ignore it, figure it’s another auditory hallucination lol but then I am like WHO is speaking what is that? Oh a tennis player directing us to another small town kk cool.

I still wanna make a Nagivation app and it’s your mother-in-law’s voice screaming at you to take a sweater and not drive so fast (soft seinfeld george costanza rip-off) like come on the wordplay is totally right there that’s how fast my brain is functioning, I’m doing the things and concocting riddles along the way fucking christ. I am nagivating you. Nagivation. No, NAGivation. STOP NAGIVATING AT ME. see? fun. especially three hours deep inna a road trip and you gotta piss but there’s no place in sight then someone mentions waterfalls and flowing rivers. Never stop trolling the world.

I look back on my life to understand the here and now like I can see bad habits I am forming and I am raiding my hand to try to curb them all in one fell swoop like you can conquer shit when u tap into a higher level of consciousness (can you believe that I am talking like this now?) and when you make that shift in establishing a new routine involving effort and wiping out the bullshit.

for the stupider ones than me, here:

Consciousness is the state of being aware of and able to think about one’s own existence, thoughts, and surroundings, encompassing a complex interplay of subjective experiences and brain processes.

So I want to work on a digital detox. Less social media. Less immediate dopamine reaction and OCD checking notifications around the clock. I never learned to shut off or nagivate that. I get a lot of notifications and it’s no different than drugs or any other addiction. If you have been a loner or isolate yourself, then social media is for you, so now that I got what I wanted I am drowning in it similar to lottery winners who blow thru all their money.

I wished for social media before it existed. I wanted to leave my beautifully screwed up teenage girl journals in parks for strangers to read and somehow get back to me. I thought of a system! I would dig a hole and there would be a sign-out log for all the people desperate to hear about my life. LMAO. Joke’s on you though because you’re here reading this so who is the loser now huh?

Another thing I need to curb is Love Island fights with morons like me on X. I like it as much as coffee. Lots. And then when I get attacked oh god lorrrrrrrrrdddd yess more please. I think I am addicted to humiliation and fighting I get an adrenaline spike when someone is mean to me, there’s legs here, it would explain a lot of my toxic patterns but anyway, I need to monetize it if I am going to continue investing precious time that would be better utilized elsewhere.

The thing with me though is if I like something then I will suck the fucking life out of it. That’s how we are with obsessions, hobbies, addictions, right? Not naming names but if you’re gonna chime in on my excessive unhealthy patterns then I will call you out on your annoying crap too!

See what I did there, defensive deflection. Don’t do that. Own and stand in your shit don’t attack and point fingers you know who you are if you do this.

Limiting social media I am hoping will lead to me blogging more and writing more BOOK. My writing agent said he will see if he can get me someone to help me. My bestie was but he literally RIP now so the position is now available. I have to trust you though. I let someone in before and they wrote a fucking hit blog piece on me LOL. I got Selena’d. jkjkjk but u know what I mean. Not bragging but I got some stage 5 clingers.

My next blog post will be a positive one nothing but motivational stuff as I would like to be the change I want to see in the world which means some people I know who are nothing but negative always it’s like abuse in my ears instant joy thief like fuck it’s entertaining but boundaries, curb it. When you’re the all new you that involves cutting out other people’s garbage you don’t want near you and never did nahhmsayin? I suffer from my own hell i ain’t suffering yours too. Empaths need to be vigilant. When giving is your love language you should not give too much and you will know when it’s too late so learn to SAY NO. And don’t apologize.

My girl Kenzie (who is getting so much hate and I defend the most like I am being paid) on Love Island corrected both of her matches in conversation and I wanted to tweet wow cunty but then I thought NO fuck that if she were a man saying those things no one would bat an eye. I also loved that she was right so hard and both men take the L. If men would just take more Ls and stfu more the world would be a lot chiller place like if y’all fucked up don’t waste more of our energies gaslighting around it because we saw it the first time. I step into my power of not getting fucked around with no more FYI first time I am nice about it and stand on business but if you didn’t take me seriously the first time, lord help you. When I fuck up and it means something to me, I do something about it I face it head on because I can’t relax until it’s rectified. Don’t understand the run and hiders and deniers. No aura points brah.

Okay I’m gonna pick some thirst traps for this post now.

Lemme know what you know, you know?

xo

Ate this yesterday then crushed a ton of weights and kettlebell. Being more aware of what I eat instead of starving myself and then snacking. Eat protein then have fuel and lift weights duhhh stupid. Still some steak left I will eat and do more puttering.

The odd cheat here and there so you don’t go postal. Sticky toffee pudding for 4.99 why wouldn’t you?

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Would you prefer to be who you are going to be or who you use to be?

Like, did you have a glow-down and now you reflect on pictures of your former youthful, vibrant self, and wish for that again or do you lock in (gotta stop saying that) double down and glow the fuck up?

My body isn’t perfect yet but it’s not bad. Nitpicking over it is stupid when the majority do not care, it’s the insipid internet trollish losers who attack confident women online. Yesterday one guy from Regina and also from a sober group I am in on facebook thusly should know better bcos ex-drinkers are suppose to be all kumbaya with each other but anyway he put a laugh emoji under the pic I posted yesterday so I ofc wanted to know why. I messaged him and asked why he put a laugh emoji and he said Why spred out like that …looks fucked up and obviously I snapped and at that same time he left a comment on my post saying I was a barrel with chicken legs on it LOL — I went nuclear. AND as it so happens also at the same time facebook decided there was sus activity on my account and had to make sure I was me tf so I couldn’t reply to any messages which are always blowing up. I reported him and said go fuckin relapse u trashbag.

He had effectively highlighted and diagnosed a major body insecurity of mine and was it the most flattering picture to showcase of what I consider (for me at least) to be progress? maybe not but fuck man, he got me good. Then my mind went down a rabbit hole of self consciousness meanwhile I’m receiving likes and supportive comments pumping my ego and yet this motherfucker has the gall to try to make me feel small. So I go and look at his profile, he’s not ugly but he’s sure as hell a bored Saskatchewan hick who does renos of some sort using only one selfie picture that’s black and white. super sus. can tell makes a habit of trolling women on Facebook as a hobby.

this is the caption:

Motivated more than ever. I am setting a goal of losing 10lbs. Locking in. 213 days no alcohol.

this reveals a weakness and an achievement at the same time. trolls do not like when you are winning and they take every opportunity they can to attack insecurities. I could post an even more toned picture with the same caption and he would have said something to take me down.

In the past I posted topless pictures here often and looking back some very unflattering unfit pictures that I would never post today.

Haters are my motivators in the words of canceled Ellen Degenerate who no doubt stole it from someone else. We’re not suppose to feed the trolls but I gotta a little bit. I am addicted to fighting in only to right wrongs but ultimately it is a massive waste of time but sometimes you can change the mind of a cretin pos woman-hating incel but mostly no you can’t. I hope anyone afflicted with manosphere brainwashed sons does the right thing asap.

I love this place. I’ll go back to doing blog posts like these with pictures of my adventures not just selfies combined with my long diatribes of all my insistent opinions.

kk gotta decide what trouble to get in today it’s so hot. lemme know if u wanna bully some targeted harassment to this troll’s way I will oblige it.

Also I do some light-sponsoring now and had a call with a friend in some need of Raymi advice yesterday, I’ll leave with you now. I told him:

MEPS Mentally Emotionally Physically Spiritually ask yourself that thru out the day

Daily check in to track progress and feelings
in recovery shit we did at rehab
some girls wouldnt shut the fuck up lol
keep up the no drinking to day 3
youre worth it

I’m leveling up and I cant leave you behind (and now ive landed on my blog post title)

you know you can do it when you feel the heat apply the pressure back

dont be consumed and powerless in your stress

PUNCH IT IN THE FUCKING FACE SOBER

Make doctor appt for shrink referral to get a script – anyone i know in therapy that pays for it is still sick and not getting better do not pay for therapy you can get covered for free under ohip u need some tough love from a practitioner who wont tell you what you want to hear to keep you coming back

get diagnosed
also to vent about your situation
your mom your marriage and your unhappiness and drinking

Youre not fixed yet

He made it thru yesterday without drinking and now will make it thru today too and I am proud of that for him it takes someone to set you straight sometimes to yank you out of your addictive cycle it can be very scary and hard to stop when you are in it. My heart goes out to all the addicts suffering out there.

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