Comments on: have done/could do

By: raymi

raymi — Tue, 27 Jan 2015 13:57:30 +0000

Love you 4EVR James!!!!!! lets go running once it warms up. Raymboat does not do cold.

also I didnt know they were being hated on where!?!?

By: Barnaby James

Barnaby James — Tue, 27 Jan 2015 03:20:21 +0000

Well Raym’s,

Proud that you don’t care what others think. It is an important trait to have.

Sad that those ladies on Now (Body Love Issue) are being attacked. It takes a lot of guts to pose nude. People don’t have perfect bodies. We all come in different sizes, and no one should feel bad because they aren’t the “ideal cultural media form.”

Proud that you’re exercising and in shape Dad. I need a jogging pal, for when I start running again. So sign me up.

To make a long story short, I find it laughable that some assholes out there are making fun of people for posing nude because they don’t fit inside of these high horse people’s paradigm. Also, very hypocritical of these folks. As I bet someone in their family aren’t in their ideal form that causes so much hate, for them to spew hateful remarks.

To conclude, don’t make people feel like shit because they don’t look how you want them to. Sure you might not be into someone with more weight or less weight or whatever the fuck the case is. Learn how to not be an asshole, and keep your remarks to yourself. This coming from a grade A “asshole.”

Anyhow, that’s my rant.

Keep on rocking in the somewhat free world.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4wGjb75bDF8

By: raymi

raymi — Mon, 26 Jan 2015 17:55:54 +0000

I was just using NOW’s body love movement as a shield to help defend myself of my self body fixation when really I shouldnt be defending anything period, but just doing.

It just blows when you can hear the clucks and tuts in people’s minds before you even make a move to show the racy thing or do the brazen what have you.

People just obsess over me because I obsess over me and I am relentlessly driven.

I posted a butt pic the other day on Facebook and so much drama came of it. It’s MY ass yet so many people have to weigh in and cause drama about it. Which is why I delayed a day before posting the same picture which seemed completely fine to post on instagram/twitter/tumblr but sure enough facebook takes the cake.

And it’s this Facebook generation who cannot deal – those who rely on Facebook for every thought, update and life notification. People who feel the need to run to my brother and mother about it when this is 15 years later from day one of my blog transformation/life journey’s beginning and being fine with posting what I post.

I am not going to change and I am not going to stop drawing parallels to things that are also unjust, or double standard.

The only thing you can control in this world is your own life. The rest is just trolling on the internet.

By: nobiggie

nobiggie — Mon, 26 Jan 2015 04:49:59 +0000

takeitasred pretty much summed up what I wanted to say, totally agree with your post. I don’t think it’s fair to compare the two. Raymi from what I have seen of your pics you have the kind of beautiful body that is revered by media & society and drooled over by most men. On the other hand the ladies on the cover of NOW(and myself because I have been anywhere from size 14to 24) have been called disgusting,slobs and openly degraded & criticized and have been considered inferior because of our bodies. What is sounds like you are talking about is people thinking it’s narcissistic to post naked photos everyday or whatever(not that I agree, people can do whatever they want) but I don’t think the “fat acceptance movement” should be lumped into the same category because the two issues are different.

By: steven shelton

steven shelton — Mon, 19 Jan 2015 17:43:38 +0000

I don’t mind if you show off your body.

By: Seamus

Seamus — Fri, 16 Jan 2015 13:36:23 +0000

Raymi RAWKS!!!

By: raymi

raymi — Fri, 16 Jan 2015 13:34:05 +0000

Candice, at that time I was dieting like mental and bodies were all I could think about coupled by my blog life and being talked about under a microscope. All I meant was I wanted to have your body as my own. I now know there is more to life than a perfect body but not really ;).

By: MarkD60

MarkD60 — Fri, 16 Jan 2015 13:12:02 +0000

I love the legs/feet/shoes picture, it makes my heart do funny things…

By: Candice

Candice — Fri, 16 Jan 2015 10:01:57 +0000

I’ve been reading here for eleventy billion years, and met you about half that long ago with my sister, we went to the beach. One of the first things you said to me was that I was skinnier than you, and that you were jealous. One of the first things I thought was… I’m sure she has a pretty good idea how I’ve accomplished that. I felt pretty *good* about that, which was total penis-nosed crap, though I can’t find the pic (thank mr skeltal). I have issues, we all have issues. I’m naked on the internet, you’ve been naked on the internet, I dunno what you have up your sleeve coming up, but no one’s body is wrong, even though we’re all still within rights to judge ourselves, dammit. I haven’t commented here since I forget, and haven’t paid full attention always after that beach. Still on your side forever for whatever :* Bit drunk now so I will STAHP. Unsure of sense-making.

By: Johnny Fearless

Johnny Fearless — Fri, 16 Jan 2015 00:00:57 +0000

I’m so happy to see what’s happening in your life these past few days and I support you 100%, all the way. You are so much more Fearless in a way that I wish I could be and nobody should be ashamed to put themselves out there the way you do.. that’s why I adore you so much!

They’re all jealous little turds who wish they were as wonderful and beautiful as you, slinging mud from behind a keyboard. If they don’t like what you’re doing/showing, then they can look the other way and live their sorrowful lives while you blossom and shine. Fuck the haters.

I’m so proud of you. ♥♥♥