dear raymi, I knew you felt the tension of the Lois and Tracey saga while sitting between us
When you pointed to Sally to let her know we were Ginger and Rosa, I was relieved she didn’t ask “how so”?

Chemistry and friendships start out with best intentions and deeper bonding, closeness develop over time when loyalties are established
But sometimes real life gets in the way and differences are exposed
loyalties weaken opening up for small betrayals and trust is tested.

But as with any pairing in life, people come and go with time. And we learn to grieve the goodbyes sadly as a natural part of life

Only the strongest and truest friendships survive.

For this rare kind of friendship, Loss is not an option.

She let me get the last question in which was:

Are Ginger & Rosa friends still friends?

A throw her off type of question. She seemed to think about it for a moment .
Her answer is yes, but the relationship will never be the same again.

I think thats what happens to many womens relationships in life. After a betrayal or letdown, what was once, never is again. The innocence is gone.
And if the relationship is worth saving,
It starts again on new ground and either heals or wains.

Women are complex.