Comments on: There’s a reason why hater rhymes with masturbator

By: raymi

raymi — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 18:16:13 +0000

or go bear hunting!

By: Clem

Clem — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 17:59:09 +0000

No Raymes you’ve got it wrong I told you that when I’m stressed I colour my hair!

By: tkkerouac

tkkerouac — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 17:57:09 +0000

ya but you said black is boring

and I’m still wearing it anyway

as well as the boots

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 17:40:34 +0000

you must hang out with slobs or sloppy men or people with natural beauty. The only people I ever bother to make aesthetic critiques on are 1. famous people in movies who will never hear it therefore don’t count. 2. colleague and/or teacher (where it affects me, business/appearance/happiness) I would never tell any of my friends oh, so much makeup today! Or Nice stupid pants (ok maybe I would, the pants thing) If it’s someone’s look to always dress up or down, or freaky, that is their personal taste and not to be fucked with, like, that sweater is an extension of their boring existence which they are happy with apparently so why are they harping on you and your joy of cute bows and makeup? I love the theatrical and glamorous and will be wearing makeup until i am dead will probably die putting on makeup or looking in a mirror.

By: gina

gina — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 17:18:49 +0000

I get shit on a lot for ‘always dressing up and putting make up on’ and not dressing down. And I don’t apologize. And you shouldn’t either!

By: Tom Bates

Tom Bates — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 17:00:18 +0000

Thanks for all the entertainment the past few weeks. I’ve never been a big fan of burlesque (before my time if you can believe that), but, you’ve sure made an old ‘art form’ seem alot more interesting!!! Very uber entertaining. All true artists will be attacked at some point, I’ve never figured this out even after 31 years of teaching. It’s just the way humans are, never happy to just sit back and enjoy, some just have to open their big mouths and prove how stupid they truly are with their opinions… Thank goodness for artists like u!

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 16:39:13 +0000

well i dont exactly think i’ve looked like dog shit everyday up to right now hahah but i see what you mean yes i look good and am preserving as much as is poss with the raymi tried and true celebrity diet which seems to be working. stress + pigging out + restricting + booze = yay! Oh dance and weights and sit-ups too. People say the older you get the harder it is to stay fit, that is lazy giving up people talk. I find that the weight doesn’t want to stay on now cos it’s like this body is too old for fat on it you had your chance. (i will probably balloon up in a couple years again haha). You look great too carly!

I keep forgetting that I had an iud taken out in the spring and that is when the majority of my weight came off. Anything hormonal will affect a woman’s ability to lose weight.

Hey gina! I forgot about the uber anti-feminist feminists whom actually do the opposite of female empowerment with their crotchety ways. We’ve all had that phase, it doesn’t make me fake to give a shit about my looks and preen myself.

By: gina

gina — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 16:35:53 +0000

raymi baby you have lots of BC love right here in my little heart. I am sorry that some little ugly troll decided to make you the target of her haterade. here in BC, we have a lot of girls that like to make themselves look ugly on purpose, so, don’t be surprised. they don’t call them the wetcoast hippies for nothing.

you are lovely.

xoxoxo.

By: carly

carly — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 16:29:29 +0000

Split ends? Fuuuuuck, who DOESN’T have split ends?? Like really, is that all they got…nice one. Aged? Are they FUCKING kidding…you’ve NEVER looked better and as someone who as read and followed your blog for a few years, I can honestly say that. You look freaking INCREDIBLE! (You’re my January motivation by the way, time to get toned!) You look so good…they’re all fucked…that’s all I have to say, haha

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 16:17:56 +0000

This is my platform and they are commenting on my time, on my “baby” so to speak so it’s not a waste of time all the time to acknowledge their flames as it’s part of the job. Accusing anyone period of being boring is a tall order as once you open your mouth you are now in question, what right do you have to say this is boring? Quite the contrary I find, it’s winter and people are commenting again, interacting on my blob and it’s not what I blog it’s that I blog, the numbers jack up, every time I FB/tweet that I have updated (also the point of the fucking thing). If anything she/they fall in to the trap of expectations, to which they should have none because what they see is what they get here and if it’s going to be slutty or boring or banal, that’s my choice.

Next up on the to attack list is my hair and age. Apparently I am not allowed to enjoy any of my life because there is always something to fix about it, split ends? Fuck you I am notorious for split ends cos I like long locks and IRL no one cares or notices, you left a shitty remark on a post where I put up photos of unwashed Christmas shopping hair, where I left me for last, goddammit. And then I looked aged in my burlesque photos? Fat chance there too more like my body is slammin’ and you would never have the balls to do that. Anyone who leaves shitty comments after burlesque shows is immediately canceled out and I think women should be banned from vommenting sometimes until they focus on their own blogs hair faces and/or “being interesting”.

My friend Clem said that when he is stressed or sad, he just works harder, which is likely an asian thing but it’s true. If your life is fucked DO it better then. Be proactive. If people hate me for doing my life and being hardworking they are focusing on the wrong thing and should stop reading my blog. I want things so I work hard for them and then I get them. I invented this blog out of nothing and made it what it is all by myself, no one taught me or held my hand so how can someone else not totally do the same too? Stop whining.