Comments on: The town is gonna talk but these people do not see things through to the very minimal but what’s it gonna cost to be gone? If we see you like I hoped we never would.

By: Tkkerouac

Tkkerouac — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 21:16:38 +0000

the healthiest relationships are the ones where you have a equal relationship/partnership
and adore each other equally

sounds simple, doesn’t it?

not

By: Tkkerouac

Tkkerouac — Sun, 19 Dec 2010 02:57:49 +0000

I can’t believe more people didn’t comment on this because its brilliant. I imagine people are out Xmas shopping.

To D.
Don’t give up on love yet, just don’t make it everything.
If a guy didn’t tell you he loved you before the four month mark, then it more likely wasn’t going to happen.
he knew at two months, but kept it going anyway, perhaps for the comfort.

And Dear Daughter
Its too bad people say that you have to have the “upper hand, or “the guy has to love you more than you love them”
sounds like a superficial game really.

Personally, I think there are alot of unhealthy people out there who really don’t know how to love.
And the ones that play games and try to make you feel insecure about yourself…

the minute it happens, the whole world should stop.
And then you tell him,
I know what you are doing, and why you are saying this

you are a very insecure person, and its sad that you feel you can’t be genuine and need “one upmanship”.

And if you think there is a race on to find “the soul mate”

even though its not easy, there are just as many people in their 30’s,40’s,50’s, etc. chasing the same thing

You can find it with a bit of luck at any age.

Its finding it and keeping it thats the challenge.

By: casie stewart

casie stewart — Sat, 18 Dec 2010 23:54:50 +0000

i went to lilith fair with carly. lets all go next year!!!!!!!! aaaaaaaaawwwesome.

By: Mel

Mel — Sat, 18 Dec 2010 20:06:11 +0000

you gave that first girl great advice. good for you. there needs to be more women like you (us) that don’t take this sort of crap when dating.

also, i totally believe in having the guy love you slightly more/balancing things out about. this is key key key and why my exes still hover around at my whim. ha.