sorry to hear that but that paragraph comes with wisdom from hanging around with mostly women these last ten years.
Women friends come into your life for a reason,or a season and a few make it to A list Lifers.

Once you come to terms with this, when they try and hurt you, its just a small pinch because you know they rank with the majority of b listers, where they belong.
No use trying to change it.
Just make the the best of it.

That entire paragraph just completely resonated with me for a ton of stuff going on in my life right now, I know that was not meant for me, but thanks anyways. Lovely words of wisdom.

yes, they have a little power for the moment and know it gets your goat
but seriously,is it really worth repeating?

You might get to a point in life where you realise that most women are capable of throwing you under the bus if they are jealous or unhappy in their own lives. its attention seeking.
It bothers you less once you demote them to B-list friends and know that thats all they will ever be so in essence, no real genuine closeness, just someone to have fun with. Not worth investing too much time and effort in these types.

one of the bain of their existence is that u give them something to talk about.

Quite sad, isn’t it?