Comments on: this is not a love song it’s a sonnet damn it feels good to have people up on it

By: jessica

jessica — Fri, 19 Nov 2010 01:33:46 +0000

whoever said that maybe doesn’t know what asperger’s is? it has nothing to do with honesty. someone with asperger’s could also be a complete liar. it also has nothing to do with saying everything you think. some with asperger’s might do that, but others might not want to talk to other people at all. it’s an inability or lack of desire to interact socially, paired with some sort of routine or maybe several that the person cannot stop doing, and usually related issues with non-verbal communication too, such as body language. getting nervous and looking at the floor in a new situation is not the same as asperger’s.

that’s a pretty rude thing to say to someone who does not have asperger’s. and if they were putting emphasis on the “brutal” part of honest, i’d guess it was said as revenge for something you said that they didn’t like.

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 18:09:53 +0000

partying in burlington while living in bronte does not equal LIVING in burlington.

By: Tkkerouac

Tkkerouac — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 18:04:24 +0000

Lots to say here

Burlington surpassed Oakville in the ratings for being one for the best places to live. And you met some juicy well off women last night. There are alot of successful people here, Burlington is right next to Oakville for Godsake.

I don’t think finding the elusive soulmate has anything to do with where you live. Its about being at the right place, right time,chemistry,timing,etc.

Sadly though, even with all the best intentions, when it comes to relationship, many people have the attention span of a knat for it. They find faults with the relationship they are in then its onto the next flavour.
Many of the available ones have ADHD when it comes to relationships and keep one eye open for the next best thing.
The Internet has cause alot of this behaviour.

My 80 year old dad said he wouldn’t want to live in the mess our generation has created when it comes to relationship.

Maybe he has a point.

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 17:40:28 +0000

craig it’s a race. we must have the best. conditioning, and desire to bring trophies home to parents.

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 17:39:12 +0000

sam http://drawingbad.blogspot.com (the posts that dont load just click on the date or title and they’ll load independently)

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 17:38:30 +0000

bre- type A’s hit the city, are in abundance there, tend to be single cos they’re uptight therefore “city people stay single longer” yeah there’s flaws to my theories but the overall point is, there is a lot of shitty losers in the city how can we stop bumping into them?

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 17:35:04 +0000

angela i do not have access to these elusive rich burlington people but i know they exist here i’m just blanket generalizing the majority is all. i do love it here it’s grown on me like fungus.

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 17:34:10 +0000

chris that’s a more direct and apt way of putting it hahaha

By: raymi

raymi — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 17:33:50 +0000

jen YES please.

By: Jenn

Jenn — Thu, 18 Nov 2010 16:57:25 +0000

This is an awesome post!
I have two very distinctly different circles of friends: Married or antsy-to-be-married suburbanites, and city friends who are either dating or single. I’m finding I can’t be entirely comfortable around the former group anymore as I am drawn to the unpredictable city and due to my career, spend most of my time there. I get a lot of raised eyebrows when I go to ‘burb parties and tell them about my daily TO adventures. I spent 22 years of my life not fitting in the Falls neighborhood and that was enough.

I look at the ground when I walk to avoid stepping in things. Not everyone picks up after their dog.
Also I am in Burlington often so if you ever want to go for a drink, LMK