I don’t understand what’s at issue here but it sounds like you did a good job stickin’ up for who you went to the bar with and that’s how you gotta do ‘er bud! Good job!

on a lighter note (so to speak), what’s with that great jacket? does it light up or is that reflective stuff? or is it something emanating from you?
XX,
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Apparently it is stressful on our psych to live in big cities because we are in constant contact with strangers and our brain is nonstop trying to figure out if they are friend or foe. In most cases we’ve got nothing to go on except facial expressions and body language. In most cases people find it easier to stereotype and judge as it saves us the trouble of having to get to know the entire world on a personal level, which we just don’t have the capacity for. This may be why you get women giving you bad vibes. They are threatened by your foxy ways and their brains are labeling you as foe/competition. You’re left having to deal with yet another stranger who appears to be an enemy and that’s just not good for your brain.

People in small towns where they know everyone tend not to have that problem because they don’t have to ride the subway or go out at night and run into ten thousand strangers. They generally just dislike one or two people in their town and avoid them. But they also don’t meet as many cool and interesting people or have as exciting of a life.

What I don’t understand is why these girls don’t just ignore you or go cry alone in a corner about their insecurities?