Comments on: i like it and i don’t like anything

By: Nicole

Nicole — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 04:38:51 +0000

Haha peking-duck how high are you, too? or am I aloooooooooooone

By: Nicole

Nicole — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 04:37:49 +0000

Raymi, I have been reading your blog for 6 years. All I, really, can say to this post is, have them blow you. Fuck it, care about who you love, not who you do not know. People will be making judgments and remarks about you until the end. Stop worrying now, you will be pretty fuckin better off. It’s only gonna get worse, beautiful. And I don’t say that condescendingly or in a creepy way. You are just beautiful, and the people who realize, understand or see this are the people who truly matter. People will say shitty remarks for shit reasons and should be swept out of all of our heads, Because are they really affecting your Life or your Mind? Is this who many are going nuts? But who am I to say. Many of us are just a butterfly among birds. You have opened up in the past about sex, mental tribulations, family issues, partners, very personal things. None of it is new, at least not the subjects. Just do it! Not that I’m saying this to want to know everything, it’s just that this seems to me to be art, somehow, blog-style. And I would hate for it to go down that road of familiarity and commercialism, per-sEHH. Well, all for me, Night

By: Corporate Fraud

Corporate Fraud — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 22:23:15 +0000

So lemme get this straight…You blog an innocent comment about “guy I am bangin'” and some shithead reads and runs to Px to tell on you?

Some people have no clue how to be cool.

By: Holly

Holly — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 18:42:57 +0000

errrr i mean, what is it called? a capelet??

By: Holly

Holly — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 18:34:37 +0000

oooooOOOoooo am in love with the ring and leopard shrug/shawl. did you purchase!?

By: r/r

r/r — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 17:54:44 +0000

i gotta say i feel like non-bloggers have WAY the hell more control over their reputations all around, like it’s the total opposite of that statement

By: Krista

Krista — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 06:02:46 +0000

people are always gonna be petty about you and your life and that sucks. *hug*

By: pamela

pamela — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 02:43:44 +0000

More importantly…
What brand/colour is your nailpolish in the George Bush’s mail picture??

Btw I love reading your blog. As a totally uninvested reader the more personal the better (entertainment wise). But of course it’s your actual life so I can see why you’d hold back.

By: peking duck

peking duck — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 23:38:05 +0000

you shouldn’t even be questioning what you write about on YOUR blog. everyone has an opinion of everyone else and it’s all based on what they see in themselves. everyone wants to project their morals and values on everybody else in this world and none of them want to question whether or not they’re wrong for doing so. YOU ARE YOU and will always be you and there will always be ppl out there who don’t agree with what you do, but tough chickens. you’re not about to mold yourself to someone else’s ideals because they are constantly trying to ram them down your throat. opinions can be, and frequently are, wrong.
everytime you let someone hurt you or piss you off with their opinions, you are giving them power over yourself. never do that. we are all different and we all experience life and emotions and tragedies etc differently and no one has the right to judge someone else for being different.
this is lamely long, but this pisses me off about reading your blog sometimes. there are some people out there who enjoy reading your blog because it is an extension of you and you are different and it is interesting seeing through someone else’s eyes from time to time. i don’t always agree with stuff you say or do or wear or eat, but i’m not gonna ambush your comments section and try to make you ashamed of yourself. you’re expressing yourself, not me, not anyone else.
in summation: you are beautiful and do what you want no matter how much slack you get from the nay-sayers.

By: skitterbox

skitterbox — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 23:06:52 +0000

you have to write for you. if you were your only blog reader, what would you want to read about? that’s the only person who matters. once you start writing with other people in your head or for the other people in your head then it’s all about how well you can anticipate others’ behaviours and navigate around them. and that’s a skill, yes, but probably not the skill you want to hone and craft. you’re a writer, not a PR agent. how exhausting for you! people who meddle are passive-aggressive freaks who have too much time on their hands!