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		<title>By: raymi</title>
		<link>https://raymitheminx.com/2008/12/05/how-to-not-talk-about-yourself-for-a-nite/comment-page-1/#comment-352</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[raymi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 20:18:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[don&#039;t worry if i monitor my drinking i can bet on not liking anyone ;)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>don&#8217;t worry if i monitor my drinking i can bet on not liking anyone <img src="https://raymitheminx.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif" alt=";)" class="wp-smiley" /></p>
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		<title>By: steph</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[steph]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 18:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[HAVE FUN!!  you&#039;ll be great, beautiful, great.  don&#039;t get infatuated with any new girls tho please thanks.  xoxox]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HAVE FUN!!  you&#8217;ll be great, beautiful, great.  don&#8217;t get infatuated with any new girls tho please thanks.  xoxox</p>
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		<title>By: raymi</title>
		<link>https://raymitheminx.com/2008/12/05/how-to-not-talk-about-yourself-for-a-nite/comment-page-1/#comment-343</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[raymi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 15:56:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[probably wear my hair down if it co-operates, if not, up in a bun. that&#039;s all i got. i keep meaning to buy a curling iron, today is not the day to experiment.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>probably wear my hair down if it co-operates, if not, up in a bun. that&#8217;s all i got. i keep meaning to buy a curling iron, today is not the day to experiment.</p>
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		<title>By: raymi</title>
		<link>https://raymitheminx.com/2008/12/05/how-to-not-talk-about-yourself-for-a-nite/comment-page-1/#comment-342</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[raymi]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 15:53:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[rita it&#039;s just not my place at all to let it all hang out, i know what you mean, i&#039;m going to be fine, i&#039;m just anxious cos it&#039;s been so long and i have never met any of these people.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>rita it&#8217;s just not my place at all to let it all hang out, i know what you mean, i&#8217;m going to be fine, i&#8217;m just anxious cos it&#8217;s been so long and i have never met any of these people.</p>
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		<title>By: sass</title>
		<link>https://raymitheminx.com/2008/12/05/how-to-not-talk-about-yourself-for-a-nite/comment-page-1/#comment-340</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[sass]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 07:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[you are going to be stellar. what are you doing to your hair? let&#039;s play dress up!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>you are going to be stellar. what are you doing to your hair? let&#8217;s play dress up!</p>
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		<title>By: Rita</title>
		<link>https://raymitheminx.com/2008/12/05/how-to-not-talk-about-yourself-for-a-nite/comment-page-1/#comment-336</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rita]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 02:30:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[No, no, no... You&#039;re a fabulous, dynamic, ECCENTRIC, and a fascinating person. And it saddens me to think that you would water it down in favour of blending in. Your post sounded like one of those guides from the 50&#039;s about how to greet your husband when he comes home from work. There&#039;s a thick line between gloating/outshining others and simply being yourself. Embrace it!!! Go and be yourself, and enjoy yourself. You don&#039;t need to reveal anything personal about yourself, but I think you should somehow compromise and allow yourself and others the opportunity to see just how special you really are! There&#039;s nothing wrong with celebrating yourself. Enjoy the shindig!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>No, no, no&#8230; You&#8217;re a fabulous, dynamic, ECCENTRIC, and a fascinating person. And it saddens me to think that you would water it down in favour of blending in. Your post sounded like one of those guides from the 50&#8217;s about how to greet your husband when he comes home from work. There&#8217;s a thick line between gloating/outshining others and simply being yourself. Embrace it!!! Go and be yourself, and enjoy yourself. You don&#8217;t need to reveal anything personal about yourself, but I think you should somehow compromise and allow yourself and others the opportunity to see just how special you really are! There&#8217;s nothing wrong with celebrating yourself. Enjoy the shindig!</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah</title>
		<link>https://raymitheminx.com/2008/12/05/how-to-not-talk-about-yourself-for-a-nite/comment-page-1/#comment-335</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 01:07:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m going to my spouse&#039;s work xmas party dinner thing tomorrow too... I agree 100% about coworkers talking shop and you&#039;re like zzzzzz but have to smile and be interested. The last work party of his I went to we sat with a girl who bragged all night about how big her engagement ring was. FUN!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m going to my spouse&#8217;s work xmas party dinner thing tomorrow too&#8230; I agree 100% about coworkers talking shop and you&#8217;re like zzzzzz but have to smile and be interested. The last work party of his I went to we sat with a girl who bragged all night about how big her engagement ring was. FUN!</p>
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		<title>By: Alex</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Alex]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Dec 2008 00:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have a drink or two before you go so you don&#039;t get social anxiety-y right when you get there, that always ruins the night for me when I panic right at the beginning.

Also, gameplan if someone recognizes you?  I&#039;m imagining some skeevy guy like in Offce Space going up to Fil and being like &quot;duuuuude THAT&#039;S your girlfriend?  Her tits are the bomb.&quot;

Okay now I can&#039;t stop laughing.  But seriously, gameplan!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have a drink or two before you go so you don&#8217;t get social anxiety-y right when you get there, that always ruins the night for me when I panic right at the beginning.</p>
<p>Also, gameplan if someone recognizes you?  I&#8217;m imagining some skeevy guy like in Offce Space going up to Fil and being like &#8220;duuuuude THAT&#8217;S your girlfriend?  Her tits are the bomb.&#8221;</p>
<p>Okay now I can&#8217;t stop laughing.  But seriously, gameplan!</p>
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		<title>By: Sarah Palin On Best Political Blogs &#187; Blog Archive &#187; how to not talk about yourself for a nite</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarah Palin On Best Political Blogs &#187; Blog Archive &#187; how to not talk about yourself for a nite]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 23:59:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] how to not talk about yourself for a nite &#8230;do not talk politics. only do sarah palin impression if fil says so. don’t drink too much. do not dance. period. [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] how to not talk about yourself for a nite &#8230;do not talk politics. only do sarah palin impression if fil says so. don’t drink too much. do not dance. period. [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: TJ</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 23:40:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Great Post Raymi...
Your writing is quite heartfelt(?) and it resonates with me in some places.

Can you make a sweater out of heartfelt?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Post Raymi&#8230;<br />
Your writing is quite heartfelt(?) and it resonates with me in some places.</p>
<p>Can you make a sweater out of heartfelt?</p>
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